Celebrating second blog-anniversary!

      It all started exactly two years ago. On a cold snowy winter evening of 21^st February 2015, powered with loads of ideas and fueled with limited scope of my vocabulary, when I started to pen down my first blog post, little did I know that the journey will reach this milestone today. After two years of blogging and 126 posts of variety, when I sit behind my laptop today, I still feel like a small little kid venturing into something new. Each blog post has been nothing less than a challenge, as I strive to sound sane, meaningful, humorous and informational all at once. Though I have reached this far in the journey, I still experience moments of anxiety when I release the link or moments of self-doubt, wondering if the chords shall strike with the readers as expected.

    Hunting for topics, playing the idea in mind, framing words in an imaginary world, typing them out and finally reading it aloud constitute the steps of every blog, before they are finally shaped into a post. If one asks me about the best aspect of blogging, my prompt answer will be the opportunity to deliver words as they run in my mind. Conveying what I believe or speaking out what I feel is an irreplaceable feeling of blogging that empowers me along the journey. But at the same time, I do sense the responsibility of using this freedom wisely. Just because my words can flow in any direction they want, they cannot be misused in any way.

 If you ask me about the toughest part of blogging, it will be reading the post from the perspective of a reader. As soon as I read my own words, rising conflicts between a writer and reader occupy the center-stage, giving way to an epic drama. While balancing between these two demanding roles, the end turns into a somewhat satisfactory piece, waiting for its true readers. 

     Call it feedback, comments, compliments or criticism, each of these play a significant role. Unless I get a critical comment from my parents or an encouraging note from my grandfather, unless I get a thumbs up from my sister or an approving nod from my husband, unless I get appreciation from my relatives or feedback from my friends, the quest for acceptance continues. But again, I need to remind myself about the sole purpose of blogging. It is more about seeking joy than gaining recognition, it is more about creating something unique than validating against a standard measurement.

   My journey as a blogger has brought me close to the wonderful world of creative arts. The satisfaction of creating a piece by one’s own hands cannot be offered by any other task in the universe. The sense of creation is all that radiates, when an artist puts his talents and skills to work. Though my journey completes two years today, I still get the feeling of a clear slate whenever I sit to write my thoughts. No matter how many posts I create, I will always feel as an amateur blogger.

   While walking down the memory lane of these two good blogging years, I was tempted to pen down some of the aspects learnt so far.

What has blogging taught me over these years, that influences the person in me?

1.       Ability to face criticism - accepting the fact that everyone is entitled to their own opinion, judgments are wrong way of analysis and we are defined by our thoughts, beliefs, ideas and faith.

2.       Openness to new ideas – inspiration can strike from the least expected sources, flexible approach to experiment with novel topics. (Fallen leaves on the road have inspired one of my posts!)

3.       There is no right or wrong way – arts is defined by our opinions. It cannot be declared as correct or incorrect based on any technical database.

4.       Patience is the underlying hero- it is important to believe in efforts and work hard towards the goal. Things may not turn out as expected, but patience is all you need to keep going.

5.       Not every single day is yours – many a times, when I fail in my flow of words, I remind myself about the uncertainty of life. It is absolutely perfect to have bad days when my vocabulary and inspiration simply refuse to walk with me!

6.       Enjoy the process- This lesson definitely came the hard way. While being excited about the appreciation, I would often forget about the pure joy of framing the post. It is only after a sense of satisfaction hits you, when you realize that there is more joy in the process than the end result.

With this, I come to the end of my blog-anniversary post. None of this would have been possible without you readers who support, comment, criticize and encourage me at every single step. Hope this journey continues ahead and hope I fill your minds with my gift of words! 

Love is in the air....

 

      With Valentine’s Day over our heads, it was essential to write an obvious and expected post on ‘Love’. A feeling that empowers us all through the year, yet resurfaces in the most romantic way only on 14^th February, there is something in the air that makes us fall in love over and over again. Now, when it comes to this cupid’s day, there are two categories of individuals. 

    One category strongly believes in this celebration, making innumerable efforts and plans to make it special. From dates to gifts, holiday plans to customized items, they have everything in place for their loved someone. Their mode of expression may change, but underlying thought on love will always remain the same. One look at such individuals and you will definitely fall in love over the thought of love. Coming to the second category, this group detests such days to the core. While their belief rests over strength of the bond, they are against special gifts for the occasion.

     Their views revolve around commercialization, when they complain about profitability of such unique days. For them love is all through the year! They do not need reasons for expression. Both these categories have valid points in their diary. After all, love is a feeling and expression is an act. So, whether you fall under the first category or whether you are staunch followers of the second, everything is good as far as both the better halves belong to the same club. Imagine the plight when one is heads and heels over the day to express love and the other one is least bothered!

    Looking at our example, we both seem to stand in between the doors to both categories. Not planning anything special till the actual day, assuming it to be just a formality; only to find some last moment plans to celebrate our new found love all over again! Though I cannot claim to be part of the first group, I do enjoy the thought of having a special day. A day about love, a day about affection – it is definitely fantastic to spread the charm of hearts.

    When the blogger in me thought about relevant ideas for the blog, framing one over love in this month of February was somewhat mandatory. But, I was not convinced about writing a stereotypical post on love. Away from boyfriend-girlfriend or husband and wife, I wanted to present love that is unique yet true in the real sense. Relationships, friendships, neighborhood, community are some of the other sources of love that appear touching and emotional at the same time. As we transcend over the ladder of life, we meet numerous people in our journey. Some enter into our lives due to a small purpose but end up with a large meaning. Their presence adds a beautiful difference to our living, making it worthwhile. Many a times, the relationship tag is not significant or essential, what matters is the underlying feelings of trust, love, care and honesty.

   Think about your siblings or crazy group of friends. Think about your cousins or work colleagues. Each of them bring unique doses of happiness, love and joy into lives. Though love of life partner is the central idea of Valentine’s Day, there is no harm in expanding its scope. We can definitely customize this holiday and include unique relations to its credit.

  Let us look at some unusual, yet loving moments, memories and relations in our lives that deserve a mention on this special day!

1.       It is love when your little nephew/niece recognizes your photograph and calls out your name for the first time. (Thanks to the long distance affair with my nephew, I missed that particular moment, yet talks about it from my dear sister make me so happy!)

2.       It is love when your childhood friends talk about your silly mistakes and mischievous pranks in the past.

3.       It is love when your best friend reminds you of your strengths to handle difficult situations.

4.       It is love when your cousins send you messages even amidst busy schedule just for a random chat.

5.       It is love when your aunts and uncles adopt latest mode of communication to stay in touch with you, while being miles away.

6.       It is love when neighbors greet you every day, with a smile.

7.       It is love when people appreciate you for your hard work and efforts.

8.       It is love when little kids smile at you.

9.       It is love when customer service individuals help you with essence of kindness.

10.   It is love when nature and environment offer you the best weather and a lovely day.

11. It is love when your bunch of friends suggest you best restaurants and hangout places in town. 

And lastly, it is love when you read my posts and offer your valuable feedback!

It was definitely difficult to restrict myself to this short list. When I started with the article, I was unsure about the contents, but now I understand that love is truly everywhere. It is an emotion in the air as it is all around us.

Fall in love, express it, enjoy and treasure the feeling, after all life is too long to live it alone!

Lively soul or lifeless body?

    

      I am sure this title speaks for itself. We all have been gifted with a common package called ‘LIFE’. One birth, diverse phases, varied relations, numerous years, colorful dreams, doses of feelings and innumerable experiences mark the contents of this package. How you choose to enjoy this gift is totally your call.

Whether you wish to spend every single present moment in a lively manner or whether you wish to worry for the future, it is your choice.

Whether you believe that you are responsible for your own happiness or whether you blame everything on your destiny, situations and those around you, it is your choice.

Whether you trust that everything happens for a good reason or whether you soak in sorrow, regretting every single thing happening to you, it is your choice.

Whether you believe in enjoying the present or whether you choose to save everything for the future, it is your choice.

Whether you travel your path as a lively soul or a lifeless body, it is your choice.

Now, if you read these choices carefully with a relaxed frame of mind, I am sure each one of you will opt for the first option. But, the real question is do we really practice the same in our lives? Do we really enjoy every single moment as a lively soul, without caring about the future or treating our a life as a responsibility?

   I definitely belonged to the group of second choices as I was more about future than the present. Worrying about next step rather than concentrating on the current moment forms a habit in our system, before we realize its consequences. Only when you look into the past, you understand that you wasted those precious moments like a lifeless body. Many a times, our biggest regret is not living every moment to the fullest. But, by the time you may realize it, it is impossible to turn to the past.

 This brings us back to the topic. What are the factors that determine your membership into one of the two groups? Are there any aptitude tests that can evaluate your status?

  

   Unfortunately, there are no such warning tests that can change your approach towards life at the right time. It all depends on your own choices towards living every single moment to the fullest. Rather than worrying about uncertain happenings tomorrow, focus on the known troubles today. Known situations can be handled with all your concentration, instead of diverting part of it towards unknown challenges of the future. No one can claim that the journey will be smooth, if you opt for the lively soul category, but you will certainly end up with more happiness, memories, positivity and satisfaction.

   Those belonging to the lively soul team do come across their own set of problems. Just because they choose a carefree approach does not eliminate them from troubles. Yet, their overall belief changes the complete picture. They work hard towards their shortcomings and eradicate the mountain of troubles, but while doing so; they do not forget their smiles, laughter, positivity and hope. Lively souls make sure that every situation is dealt with an open mind and a happy heart. They will be forced to taste bitter medicines as part of the regime, but they do keep sweet candies by their side.

   

     Losing hope or soaking into worries is not a part of their routine. When they enroll themselves as lively souls, they give away tensions and regrets from their stock. They only possess the desire to gather maximum memories as they walk along the path. Instead of measuring life by the amount of success, achievements, dreams and goals, they evaluate their level of happiness and liveliness. How alive were you every single day is all that matters as they take one day at a time.

     Coming to our second category, they believe in success and achievements of the future. They are unable to seize the moment or enjoy the present, as their mind is preparing for tomorrow’s examination. Spending their present with smiles and laughter appears as a waste of time, as they have loads to do for the future. All their life is spent in chasing a mirage that may not even be true. As they move around as lifeless bodies, they forget the true happiness of life. Unless you enjoy the present, it is impossible to expect the same in the future. It does not mean, we can give away all our efforts and spend everything we have. But, it simply boils down to making the most of today. Planning and analysis are good to offer us guidelines, yet engaging all our time behind them can mean nothing at all.

    Lively souls are not against preparing for the future, but they always wonder about the need to ruin the present. Tomorrow may bring some amount of disappointments, but definitely not at the cost of spending your joy of today.

  With this, I conclude my thought to allow you to think. What category will you select and execute – lively soul or lifeless body? ….the choice is all yours….

Seeking joy in little things

   

     As part of normal human nature, we are always attracted towards ‘larger than life things’. Admit it, you all must have expressed the desire to own a big mansion, when you pass one or longed for a luxury car, when its passes your simple and humble vehicle. I am sure you all must have hoped for a big vacation overseas or longed to visit exotic restaurants all over the town. There is nothing wrong in such kind of dreams. After all, dreams and desires fuel our efforts to work hard. It sets a goal in front of our eyes, as we toil to fulfill every single wish in the list.

But, if we always focus on such larger things, will we ever be happy?

What about the innumerable little things that keep happening to us every single day that offer joy in their own way?

If we are always engrossed in chasing bigger things, will we end up missing all the fun?

In an attempt to fulfill a dream in the future, will we waste all the precious time today?

Are we blinded by the shining mirage of tomorrow that we fail to appreciate the shining sun today?

  While there is nothing wrong in waiting for such grand plans and hoping for their fulfillment, we must not miss out on little things that are happening to us right at this moment. You may long to see yourself in a grand mansion with all the luxuries, but you certainly cannot ignore the warmth of your little house. It is convenient to postpone our happiness based on our plans, but it is extremely difficult to appreciate what we have today. In the rat race to make it big, we often forget about the little outcome of surprises. Life continues to throw several drops of achievements and happiness towards us, but if we waiting for a heavy shower of success, we may never be able to soak ourselves in its joy.

  Our nature to achieve and succeed may blind us from the joy in little things. I am not proposing satisfaction in little achievements or compromise of goals and dreams; I am only wondering about the happiness of present. You will shift to a bigger house down the line, but enjoy the walls and roof of your humble shelter for now. You will ride one of the best luxurious cars at a later date, till then don’t forget to appreciate your wheels today. We often fail to recognize the worth of our routine happenings, it is only after moments transform into memories, when we are able to connect with them closely.

      For a moment think about that simple bicycle that your parents bought for you. All that while, you were longing for an upgraded version like your friend, but today one single picture of you and your bicycle will bring back flood of happy memories. Eating meals at home meant boredom and monotonous food, while you longed to go out for exciting cuisine. But today as you look back, those moments with your family at the dining table were nothing less than pure joy.

    It is during such times when you realize that happiness is not packed in big boxes. It is not wrapped in branded clothes, accessories or assets. It is tied to those simple moments that meant nothing at all at one point of time; it is tied to routine meals and non-happening days; it is tied to closed ones and their talks; it is tied to hard earned materials and drops of sweat.

    Look around you with an open mind and you will realize life is hidden in simple things. It is hidden in the eyes of a little baby as he smiles for a happy future. Life is waiting for you to embrace such joy with open arms. You will definitely earn laurels in your career, till then enjoy the boring job with a smile. Appreciate the sunset, sunrise, rains and nature around your own home town, you do not need to travel miles away to sink in the beauty of nature. This attitude can keep one cheerful and happy, without running for the big picture. Do not halt in your journey forever, but make sure to enjoy the path on the way.

  To make the process easier, let us frame down some little things in our routine that give us joy. Do add your own contents in the comments.

1.       The comfortable bed in your room

2.       Fragrance of home-cooked meal

3.       Television set and remote in your living room

4.       Siblings or spouse and their routine habits

5.       Your neighbors and their colorful talks

6.       Your best friend with his/her routine complaints

7.       View of setting/rising sun from your window

8.       Trees around your house/building/street

9.       Your office desk and all its clutter

10.   Your favorite coffee or tea mug

11.   Your smart phone with its interesting apps

12.   Your favorite budget friendly restaurant in the neighborhood

13.   Your refrigerator with stock of essential supplies

14.   Your lucky dress, no matter how old it looks

15.   Lazy weekends spent on your comfortable couch

…..and a long list of other simple little things that make us happy to be alive. While you wait for the grand luxuries of tomorrow, make sure to enjoy the raw materials today. You will realize it, only when these happenings turn into memories. You may long to invite them back into your lives, but the distance may be too long. Till then enjoy the little things, embrace them closely and extract maximum joy, life is too short to wait, hope and wait again! 

Picking up threads, from where you left them…

     

To start with this blog, I will request you to put your imagination to work for the following situations:

Situation 1: ‘You meet your gang of school friends after a long time. As you spend quality time and talk about good, old days, you are instantly transported to your school times. Unknowingly as your conversation gains power, you forget about the present and get the feel of being back in school. Though each one of you has moved ahead on the journey with diverse careers and unique courses, things remain the same between your buddies, who know everything about your childish habits and naughty behavior.’

Situation 2: ‘Your sibling has moved abroad for higher education or career. You are miles away from each other, yet your conversations on phone or video chats revolve around petty fights and arguments of mishandling the room or sharing certain things or who is parents’ favorite. When you meet after a long time, things do not change a bit. No matter how far you go or how disconnected you seem to be, you are back to your normal form, as soon as you meet.

Situation 3: ‘You have moved away from your home city for work. You may not meet your parents for a long time, yet your mother asks her favorite set of questions about your food, health, routine etc. Even though you are an adult with decent levels of maturity, your mother will never cease her questions and worries. You return back home to be welcomed by a loving father with his inspirational talks or a loving mother with her complaints against your carelessness.

Situation 4: ‘You have shifted away from your old childhood building or neighborhood for better prospects far away. Yet one visit back to the place bring back wonderful memories instantly. Before you realize, you meet your old friends or neighbors and relive the good times for doses of laughter, while coloring your mischievous childhood stories.’

I hope you enjoyed this session of imagination as every situation was truly amazing to think about. 

Now, what did you find common among each of these episodes?

Though characters and plot were distinct during each time, what is the central theme governing every aspect?

   Call it love, bonding, affection or attachment, certain people form a permanent tie with you forever. Such is the binding power of this adhesive, you will never be able to remove it off, even if you wanted to. Relations like these remain untouched for years, yet look fresh and new, when you look at it after a long time. You may not be able to meet them for months and years, let alone days, yet you will find nothing has ever changed. The distance or separation turns into an insignificant factor, as you bring back the good, old times.

  For such relations, absence means nothing at all. Though you may not see each other often, you are able to continue the conversation, right from where you left. Several changes may enter into your journey, while you were away from your family or friends, but nothing of it matters, when you are back together. There is no awkwardness to be back to your normal childish form, when you meet your school friends after years and years into the future. Some ties are designed for being intact and comfortable, irrespective of the gap of distance. As hearts and minds remain connected, geographical distance or lack of time turn into insignificant factors.

     If a relation demands your time every single day of the year, it does not qualify to be strong. This does not mean, I am proposing distance between relations, just to check their strength. It simply means, situations and circumstances may change at any given point of time, demanding us to be flexible. During such uncertain times, we may be forced to move away. Though your reason may differ, the reality of being away from closed ones should not make you weak. Instead you will realize that these wonderful relations keep you going, even miles away.

    Your best buddies from school, college or neighborhood; your loving parents; your naughty yet caring siblings will all remain the same, waiting for you at the same spot with same smiles, as you return back. Physical distance, time zone difference, change in responsibilities or simply change in your lifestyle can do nothing to hamper with such relations. It is like picking threads from where you left, staying intact all this while. You will be surprised that things do not change at all, while you joke about pranks in school with your bunch of friends or your mother feeds you with love, even though you may have turned into a master chef yourself.

     Such is the beauty of certain relations that last forever. This does not mean we can take them for granted. We certainly need to strengthen them with love, care, affection and trust from time to time to enjoy their presence always. They will definitely stay for you as long as you respect their role. In an uncertain world and fragile life, where nothing seems to be under our control, such strong ties are all we have to walk along the journey of life.

Celebrate the presence of such close people in your life, who will wait for you at the same spot forever. Thank them for their patience and love them for their purity, as these threads will not break unless you pull it yourself!

P.S: A big hug to my parents for all their concern, even while being miles away.

 Lots of love to my sister, though I will continue to have loads of complaints against you forever.

Thank you all my school and college friends who bear my stupidity, yet never seem to complain!

Do you have FOMO?

   

    Now, before you quit this post for such an unusual title, let me jump straight to the point. For all you cool millennials born after the year 2000, this abbreviation will be a routine part of your dictionary. But for all those like me before the 2000s, this word may come across as a surprise. Whether you know it by the virtue of your coolness quotient or whether you have heard it for the first time, FOMO is the new-age fear of missing out. Fear of missing out from social media, happening events, cool celebrations or fancy occasions, FOMO is the new trouble gripping us like the flu. Thanks to fast speed internet, virtual connectivity, dozens of social media apps and an interest to be ‘online’, this FOMO shall not go away so easily.

   Imagine your day from start to end in today’s world. With close association of smart phones, it is difficult to stay away from the internet. As every single detail gains an entry into our Facebook walls, twitter pages or WhatsApp groups, it is impossible to stay aloof. Call it herd mentality, peer pressure, fear of rejection or restlessness of being left out, our social lives have truly changed in every way. 

   

   While I am no exception to the growing trend, the blogger in me was tempted to touch this unusual side of our life in a funny way. Gone are the days of mouth publicity, when news of any good deeds were spread through talks. Today, all we have is an account on social media to broadcast every single happening event of our lives. Good, bad, happy, sad everything has to be recorded over the media apps to stay connected in the real world.

   Bad internet connection is our worst fear today as staying away from constant updates can affect our mental health! Such is the growing influence of virtual presence that it is necessary to undergo detoxification from time to time. While relying over these apps and websites for ease of connectivity, we may have erased the thin line between necessity and compulsion. Posting about every outing, meal, celebration or routine day has turned into a mandatory affair in order to be accepted in the society. 

    For those staying miles away from home, this facility turned into a convenience to be in touch with family and friends always. Yet, it can never justify the need to post the pictures of meal before actually relishing the food or checking in details at a location before exploring it completely.

   It is always said that it is essential to live in the moment, enjoy the present, make memories and treasure it forever. But with today’s inclination towards posting and posing, I believe this essence has lost its charm somewhere. The need to be active into virtual world may take us away from the happiness and joy in simple things. Unless we savor the present and enjoy it without the pressure to post it all over, we may not live life the way it is meant to be. In the spirit of declaring our plans, holidays, major occasions and events – we tend to stress over presentation rather than the actual content.  

  Looking at pictures of our friends or reading their posts and updates may force us to believe that our life is nowhere close to theirs. With this, as competition, jealousy, anxiety and anger steps in, it can hurt us in several unknown ways. Social media is designed for our connectivity, rather than dividing us on the basis of our lifestyle. Just because your friends post fancy pictures at exotic locations does not translate into failure of your own course. As each one of us have a unique journey to accomplish, the pressure to be in the ‘happening circuit’ always can turn into a pain.

    Posting every single detail of our lives, just to be acceptable among our social circle is truly the biggest mistake of our digital minds today. You can definitely paint the canvas without placing a close camera on your lives. While my virtual brain tempts me to broadcast details quite often, my grounded husband ensures adequate distance from FOMO for the both of us. Another unusual thing that depicts our growing FOMO is expression of feelings over the internet.  

    Why does a wife need to express love for her husband through long posts and poems over their social page, when it can be conveyed right across the room?

   Why does a son or daughter express all the love and affection for their parents over the internet, when all it takes is a phone call or direct conversation to say it all?

   Why do we need to wish our best friends for their special occasions through the medium of posts alone, is it difficult to meet and greet?

    Now, I am sure you may not completely agree with my views, but these are just few questions that do deserve some attention. Some of you may argue that it is the new-age expression of love, but I believe it can be contained and restricted in our own way. When such thoughts are raised, their aim is not to discourage us from the usage of social media, it is only to make us aware about its true requirement. Love does not fade away if we fail to declare it all over the world. No matter how loved, wanted and happy the virtual world makes you feel, some relations, moments, events and happenings are meant to be protected from the online pressure.

   Fear of missing out may last for a few days, but the regret of not enjoying every moment to the fullest may last forever. Our presence over the internet, likes over the photos, comments over the posts and praises through messages will go away with passing time. But our memories, happiness and joy will definitely stay close always.

    This does not mean complete boycott of social media, it simply means understanding its usage wisely. It is definitely essential to try out every new trend in the society to live life to the fullest. I cannot deny the joy of seeing likes over my own pictures or comments on my posts, yet it is essential to stay away from the fear of missing out. As social media is an important means for writers like me, I can never turn my back to this interesting invention. But, I believe we can truly erase this FOMO before it hurts us. Impulsive need to show our presence over the internet or match the happening course of our friends can pose more harm than good.

     As long as we can realize this trouble and recognize the entry of FOMO into our system, we can unplug our lives at the right time. It is not about knowing what to post, it is about knowing when, how and why that can prevent us from any troubles.

    Hope, we all stay away from this artificial FOMO, because we have enough natural fears to take care of!

P.S: Article of such a topic deserves discussion and arguments. I would love to hear your feedback and thoughts over the same. Just because I posed this article, it does not mean my absence from the social media, I will continue to stay connected with you always (but without any FOMO!!!!)  

Song 6: Pyar ke Pal by KK

Hum, rahen ya na rahen kal
Kal yaad aayenge ke ye pal
Pal, ye hain pyar ke pal
Chal, aa mere sang chal
Chal, soche kya
Chhoti si, hai zindagi
Kal, mil jaaye to hogi khush-naseebi

Hum rahen ya na rahen yaad aayenge ye pal

Hum rahen ya na rahen kal
Kal, yaad aayenge ye pal
Pal, ye hain pyar ke pal
Chal, aa mere sang chal
Chal, soche kya
Chhoti si, hai zindagi
Kal, mil jaaye to hogi khush-naseebi

Hum rahen ya na rahen yaad aayenge ye pal

Shaam ka aanchal, odh ke aayee dekho woh raat suhani
Aa likh dein hum dono milke apni ye prem kahani
Hum rahen ya na rahen yaad aayenge ye pal

Aane waali subah jaane rang kya laaye deewanee,
Meri chaahat ko rakh lena jaise koi nishani
Hum rahen ya na rahen yaad aayenge ye pal

Hum rahen ya na rahen kal
Kal, yaad aayenge ye pal
Pal, ye hain pyar ke pal
Chal, aa mere sang chal
Chal, soche kya chhoti si hai zindagi
Kal mil jaaye to hogi khush-naseebi

Hum rahen ya na rahen yaad aayenge ye pal
Hum rahen ya na rahen yaad aayenge ye pal

  A song that definitely brings tears during farewell of any kind, these lyrics have been ruling our hearts since several years now. Speaking about nostalgia, memories, moments, love, friendship, happiness and life – the song ‘Pyar ke Pal’ by famous Bollywood singer KK is truly incredible in every way. 

  

   Though it dates back to almost 14 years in the past, it still manages to spread its charm especially during farewell days along bitter-sweet good-byes. As this wonderful number was released during our last year in school, it undoubtedly holds special memories for me and my school friends, accompanied by rolling tears and sea of fantastic memories. While framing the flow of songs for my musical express, I realized this was truly a perfect piece to end my series. Singing about memories and talking about moments, it focuses over the value of our past.

    The beauty of this simple number lies in its meaningful lyrics. Notes of guitar add magic to its rhythm that flows in a flawless manner. Each of the words talk about the beauty of memories and moments as they fill our lives with purpose and hope. No amount of wealth, assets, treasure or belongings can replace the joy of memorable moments spent with our loved ones. As life is too short to think or worry about the future, the song prompts one to remember such moments forever. Nostalgic memories have the power to radiate a sense of satisfaction, reminding us of the beautiful past.

    Besides celebrating memories and moments, this song talks about the uncertainties of tomorrow. While none of us are aware about the events of the future, all we can do is rejoice in the present and live it to the fullest. It prompts us about the need to collect valuable moments spent with loved ones. Celebrating our love, preserving it a safe manner, valuing the presence of closed ones and protecting this bond forever are some of the aspects to ride along the journey of life. As nothing is permanent and everything is uncertain, it is essential to color our lives with love, affection, attachment and bonds. They are the only assets with a lifelong value.

   Lyrics of this song have an exceptional capacity to force you down the memory lane. Listen to this song at any time of the day and you will find yourself in a pool full of beautiful memories. Be it school, college, childhood, marriage, adulthood or vacation, this song can definitely offer you unmatched levels of joy. Though memories or moments are usual occurrences in any individual’s life, these wonderful lyrics add rhythm, tune, melody and music to your train of thoughts.

      Coming to the customized section of my blog, I will frame down the reasons that make these ‘Pyar ke Pal’ so special in our lives!

©       Memories are permanent treasures that cannot be erased from our system. They stay intact all through our lifetime, reminding us of the glorious past.

©       They bring back happy times, taking us to the good, old happenings in our life.

©       Memories exhibit the support, love and affection of our loved ones, offering a sense of satisfaction that life is made of all the wonderful people we meet, greet, share and care.

©       Memories reflect our roller coaster ride, they depict the good and not-so-good experiences as we walk through the course of ups and downs.

©       Memories measure the life in us, they remind us that our journey was exciting so far, pumping enthusiasm for the further curriculum!

       Think about the reasons that make memories valuable and precious. Each of your ‘Pyar ke Pal’ will fill your lives with smiles and hearts with love.

With this, as my musical express comes to its final stop, I hope you enjoyed the lyrical journey of some of the amazing numbers in my account. Lyrics make the song and song makes our life as rhythm is all we need to keep going forever and ever....

Song 5: Words by Bee Gees/Boyzone

Words (lyrics)

Smile, an everlasting smile
A smile can bring you near to me
Don't ever let me find you gone
Cause that would bring a tear to me
This world has lost it's glory
Lets start a brand new story
Now my love
You think that I don't even mean
A single word I say...
It's only words
And words are all I have
To take your heart away

Talk, in everlasting words
And dedicate them all, to me
And I will give you all my life
I'm here if you should call to me
You think that I don't even mean
a single word I say...


This world has lost it's glory
Let's start a brand new story
Now, my love
You think that I don't even mean
a single word I say...

    After a month long vacation in my home country with unlimited doses of fun, laughter, food and memories, it was time to return back to the pavilion. Post these 30 days of joy and fun, our jet-lagged eyes and tired mind will definitely need some more time to get back into action. Though my association with words continued during the break too, I looked at them with pleasure rather than responsibility. Framing posts and writing articles was more of fun and less of duty during these long days of vacation. Now, while returning back to the same, old story with pre-defined plot and pre-determined characters, I hunted for an appropriate song that could express my state of mind.

     While continuing my musical express with impacting lyrics, I looked around for the perfect song that can describe my re-association with words. As work demands attention and job demands words, this exciting song by the title ‘Words’ seemed totally perfect in every way. An original song by group Bee Gees that was re-recorded by the famous band Boyzone, ‘It’s only words’ gained instant popularity among the audience back then. A romantic number that expresses the feelings of the singer towards his love of life, this song talks about the power of words. As words are the only means to communicate his love, the writer depicts the strength in their tale. By describing the truth in words, the writer hopes to establish a strong bond.

   Now, after reading the flow of these lyrics, you must be wondering about their inclusion in the musical express. How can a romantic number fit into this express that celebrates the power of words? Though the original purpose of the song revolves around love and its associated feelings, I admire this song for its appreciation of ‘words’. As a writer, while dealing with these friends day in and day out, I have realized their value in my life. Though this song takes a love-filled turn, I enjoy interpreting it in my way. For a song that celebrates the power in words, it describes the strength in their course. 

   

Words are the valuable pieces of our story that depict honesty and truthfulness, bringing the best in our lives. They stand as mirrors showing us true image in every way. Though we may not realize it, words leave an irreplaceable mark in the journey of our life. Actions are assumed to be stronger than words, but in reality what we speak and how we present our stand is much more impacting than any other means of expression.

    Words can leave a permanent effect, making it essential to weigh them in a correct manner. Words designed with an aim to hurt, insult, criticize or taunt can never yield any positive effect. It is important to choose our words with care and utilize them for good outcome rather than any inferior motive. Many a times, we allow our mood and mind to take charge, resulting in unacceptable flow of words. Though we may not mean it, yet our anger may fill our vocabulary with certain words only to be regretted later. This makes it essential to focus on our choice of words and spread cheer all around. As words are the central components of any communication, it is important to use them wisely.

    After entering into the field of writing, I realized the significance of rich literature. Good selection of words and flawless flow of the chain is all it takes to grab the attention of a reader. This song will always stay close to my heart for celebrating the love of words. The phrase ‘And words are all I have to take your heart away’ seems to convey my message in a perfect manner as words are indeed all I have to take my profession ahead.

     With this, let me write a quick note on why I love words:

1.       They speak your heart with true image of what’s in store.

2.       Words express, convey, speak and present all the ideas seeded deep within our minds.

3.       Words leave a long-lasting impression, making a powerful impact.

4.       Words generate feelings of happiness and love, conveying the thoughts in our mind.

5.       Core of communication, words are all we have to create space in someone’s life.

While I bid good-bye to an unwanted jet-lag, I hope to reconnect with my friends of words. Until I come back with my next post in the series, enjoy the magic of these words!

   

Song 4: I want to live like animals – Animal song (Savage Garden)

 When superstars and cannonballs are running through your head 

A television freak show cops and robbers everywhere
Subway makes me nervous, people pushing me too far
I've got to break away
So take my hand now


'Cause I want to live like animals
Careless and free like animals
I want to live
I want to run through the jungle
The wind in my hair and the sand at my feet

I've been having difficulties keeping to myself
Feelings and emotions better left up on the shelf
Animals and children tell the truth, they never lie
Which one is more human
There's a thought, now you decide

Compassion in the jungle
Compassion in your hands, yeah
Would you like to make a run for it
Would you like to take my hand, yeah


Sometimes this life can get you down
It's so confusing
There's so many rules to follow
And I feel it
'Cause I just run away in my mind

Superstars and cannonballs running through your head
Television freak show cops and robbers everywhere
Animals and children tell the truth, they never lie
Which one is more human
There's a thought, now you decide

Compassion in the jungle
Compassion in your hands, yeah
Would you like to make a run for it
Would you like to take my hand, yeah 

    Once again, the credit for introducing me to this song goes to my sister who truly has a fantastic taste towards music. More than the rhythm, I admire the lyrical power of this song created by one of the most talented musicians of the yesteryears. Bringing amazing music for their listeners with touch of meaningful lyrics, Australian pop duo Savage Garden have been extremely popular for several years now. One such masterpiece by the name ‘I want to live like animals or the Animal song’ has gained an entry into my musical express due to its carefree touch. In the maddening rush of life with its demands, chaos, expectations and responsibilities, this song reaches the chords of the heart in a perfect way.

   Though this song was set in the good, old times where life was still not so chaotic, Savage Garden seemed to be ahead of their time. While expressing the desire to set themselves free, these lyrics will truly relate to each one of us. A carefree song with extremely carefree style, ‘I want to live like animal’ comes across as the theme of our heart. Many a times, when life imposes tons of troubles, besides taking us through the routine every single day, we reach a threshold limit for any further action. Lyrics of this song express the desire of the singer duo, as they wish to enter into a carefree zone like animals. Without any stress of greeting people, meeting deadlines, fulfilling responsibilities and performing tasks, as the writer hopes to walk away from everything, it leaves a wonderful note for all.

    We all experience stressful moments along our course, while juggling wide array of duties. Besides work, elements such as people, relationships, moral duties and ethics demand our attention. Carefree life like animal without any image trouble seems to be the perfect answer for eternal happiness. As humans, we are forced to live under rules of humanity. Call it society pressures or humanly troubles, we are expected to follow certain guidelines for being human. 

While caught within this game of showing our best behavior, we may tend to focus over our image in the society. Though it is essential to exhibit humanity in the best form, it is also important to do what our heart wants. In an attempt to polish our image in the society, we may stop living our life to the fullest. By staying within the limits of good behavior, ethical values, acceptable manners and pure nature, we can continue our life in an enjoyable manner.

   How does one balance this thin line between image and ethics is a tough task, as it summarizes our entire life in a short way.  

   By hoping to live like an animal, writer of this song wants to get away from all the challenges and difficulties. The thought of running carefree into a jungle with wind in the hair and sand at the feet seems to be perfect in every way. This central thought was the highlight of my affection, as I was attracted towards the magic of its words. Just imagine yourself into the plot of this song, enjoying every single desire as expressed by the writer, and I am sure you will be tempted to break away from the routine.

   Though it sounds exciting, you must be wondering about the practicality quotient of such a thought.

 

Is it possible to leave away everything and run around like an animal?

If given a choice, would you like to throw away the luxuries of a stable life?

Would you be happy to live life by your own rules, without worrying about your ‘image’ in the society?

Before I lose your attention over these thought provoking questions, let me move towards the last segment of my post.

I will list down my reasons to live like an animal, while you can think about yours too!

I want to live like animals because:

·         carefree approach can bring out the best in me as a writer, dreamer, admirer and wanderer.

·         it will dissolve boundaries and limitations from my ‘so-called’ ideal life and allow me to explore newer things.

·         it will erase away the troubles of maintaining an image, while letting me embrace every single aspect with love.

·         it will shift the focus over living my life to the fullest, rather than living it as per worldly expectations.

·         it will dissolve any train of thoughts in my mind that revolve around unnecessary expectations of the society.

Truly one of the most interesting lyrics I have come across, this song qualifies to be my favorite song in several ways. For a unique meaning with novel touch, ‘Animal song’ is my answer to go away from stress and embrace happiness! 

Song 3: Love you Zindagi

   

   Continuing my lyrical series ahead, it is time for the next magical number. After two English songs, I will explore our dear Bollywood for an inspirational note. Stuck in my ears with its powerful lyrics and soothing music is a latest song from the movie ‘Dear Zindagi’. Referring to life (Zindagi) as a friend and companion, this unconventional Bollywood movie depicted the amazing feeling of being alive.

   Though the depiction failed in box office due to lack of typical Bollywood spices, it left behind a wonderful message for all. Forgetting the past, living in the present and staying away from the future thoughts or worries was the bottom-line of this movie that showed the power of embracing life.

  This movie definitely inspired the blogger in me delivering new ideas to the flow of my thoughts. While the writer in me touches each of these factors through the means of words, I was excited to see it over screen. Back to the lyrical journey, the title track of this movie by the name ‘Love you Zindagi’ is my latest fascination, playing in loop. A dialogue between self and life, the song oozes out inspiration in every single word. While the singer treats her life as a close friend, she talks about their sweet-sour relationship. With its rhythmic flow and meaningful lyrics, this piece has truly won my heart in every way.

    It talks about the need to embrace life in a wonderful way, keeping away worries and troubles at bay. It prompts each one to accept what they love, while rejecting what they hate. Living life by our choice is the primary core of enjoying it to the fullest. Our decisions and choices shape the form of our life, giving us direction for happiness and joy. Choosing happiness over sorrow and hope over despair is the act that can lead to eternal peace for a lifetime. What we do for a living or how we spend the course of our life is our primary task in hand. Depending on others for their evaluation, appreciation, judgments and decisions can lead to hollowness in our path ahead.

     This song describes unique love-hate relationship between us and life. At times, we are excited and enthusiastic about several events in our life followed by low lying dull moments without any charm. From happiness to sorrow, enthusiasm to disinterest, hope to despair and success to failure, we find ourselves swinging and dancing to the tunes of life. After all, life does not believe in certainty. Uncertain situations and circumstances govern our way, forcing us to adopt to changes in a positive way.

  Writers of this song have truly created a masterpiece, as they communicate with life in a direct manner. Expressing our love and affection towards life, at the same time sharing good and not so good thoughts about it can take us closer to its core.

  Inspired by this interesting idea of talking to life, I am tempted to write a short note too! Let me try my hands at chalking down the sweet and sour flavors of this ‘friend’ who means the world to each one of us.

Dear Zindagi,

Your sweetness reflects in a variety of ways. Though listing down this comprehensive note may not cover every single aspect, it is my little attempt to celebrate your existence:

1.       It feels amazing when you shower us with opportunities and support us to fulfill all our dreams.

2.       Your surprises bring out the best moments in our journey, while you choose to bless us with unexpected moments of achievement.

3.       You allow us to write our own unique story with our plot, characters, theme and genre. This flexibility is the reason for our happiness as we can fill your clean slate with our wonderful words.

Your sourness does bother us to a certain extent, but after all it is a part of the parcel!

1.       Your uncertain timing tends to bother our plans, as you enjoy throwing unexpected situations over our heads

2.       Your fast pace is another aspect that confuses us. Before we realize a new year has started, it is time to gear up for the next year celebration

3.       Your mixed signals can tend to be confusing. At times, you fill us with enthusiastic approach to perform a task, but soon you may take it away in the blink of a moment.

 With this my lyrical journey halts at the next stop. See you next week with yet another song with its magical words.

Lyrics:

Jo dil se lage
Usse keh do hi, hi, hi, hi

Jo dil na lage
Usse keh do bye, bye, bye, bye

Aane do, aane do
Dil mein aa jaane do
Kehdo muskurahat ko
Hi, hi, hi, hi

Jaane do, jaane do
Dil se chale jaane do
Keh do ghabrahat ko
Bye, bye, bye, bye, bye-bye

Love you zindagi, Love you zindagi
Love you zindagi, Love me zindagi

Kabhi hath pakad ke tu mera
Chal de, chal de
Kabhi hath chuda ke main tera
Chal doon, chal doon

Main thodi si moody hoon
Tu thodi si tedhi hai
Kya khoob ye jodi hai
Teri meri..

Aane do aane do
Dil mein aa jaane do
Keh do muskurahat ko
Hi, hi, hi, hi

Jaane do, jaane do
Dil se chale jaane do
Kehdo ghabrahat ko
Bye, bye, bye, bye, bye-bye

Love you zindagi, Love you zindagi
Love you zindagi, Love me zindagi

Lyrics courtesy: http://www.lyricsted.com