While walking inside the proverbial park…8

     With long walks and adequate pondering, as this series comes to an end, it is time to throw light on a last thought, before bidding farewell to the world of proverbs. While it is impossible to greet each of the proverbs from the sea of literature and philosophy, writing about some of the key ones was certainly exciting in its own way. As we come to the last member of the team, this shining proverb will bring a happy ending. A proverb that shall deliver a long-lasting message for a lifetime, this eighth halt has lots to convey.

Halt 8: All that glitters is not gold

     Joining hands with the thought ‘Looks are deceptive’, our next proverb warns us about the dangers of attractive looks with hollow content. Though shining factors attract our attention and appear wonderful in every manner, they may not be the same throughout. Judging someone purely on the basis of looks or relying on a decision for its shiny appeal can invite troubles in the long run. Careful analysis and consideration are the key elements that need our attention. Drawing conclusion on the basis of attractive appearance can fail in its purpose. Though sight is the first factor that greets us while we approach any subject, it may not necessarily paint the complete picture.

    Comparison, jealously, hatred, anger and disappointment due to external look at things can always turn into reasons for sorrow. Though appearance may look attractive, it cannot necessarily translate into success. Glittering shades of any element may have a hidden story to its name. Though attractive looks seem wonderful, they need to be considered in a rightful manner. While every plot in life have their own unique share of ups and downs, each of these aspects can never appear on the surface. Judging a book by its cover can never reveal the contents hidden deep within.

     Understanding every factor from its core and analyzing it with proper knowledge depict signs of maturity. Hasty conclusions and impatient actions reflect our lack of understanding. Hunting for both external and internal knowledge is equally essential as it provides the complete picture, enabling clear perspective.

With these thoughts that shine and glow, what are the factors that demand our attention?

·         Glittering look and shining appeal may not always represent precious content.

·         Deceptive looks are the primary cause of sorrow, disappointment and regret.

·         Though external features may appear attractive and tempt us towards them, understanding the content hidden deep within is equally essential.

·         Judgments and conclusions drawn through external appearance may fail in their purpose, making it essential to rely on proper consideration

·         Attractive aspects may draw our attention towards them, yet proper analysis with deeper thoughts present the real picture.

So while looks may attract you, or an interesting sight may tempt you, it may not necessarily translate into success. All that glitters is not gold, all that appears as gold is not precious and all that seems precious may not be the same from within.

With this shining thought, as the walk in proverbial park comes to an end, this journey was truly interesting. Till the blogger in me returns back with new thoughts and newer words, soak in this philosophical journey and enjoy its influence!

While walking inside the proverbial park...7

    Taking the stroll ahead, as the blogger in me marches towards few more halts, the next thought is different, interesting, mysterious yet applicable to each one of us. While this journey of proverbs has been exciting in every way, exploring their hidden meaning and understanding their impact in our lives has been truly wonderful. Though these proverbs have been a part of our life as valuable phrases since childhood, throwing light over them through the medium of this proverbial park has proved to be interesting, motivating and inspiring at the same time.

Halt 7:  When in Rome, do as the Romans do

     While the country ‘Rome’ and its folks ‘Romans’ are just representative terms for the proverb, idea behind this thought prompts us to blend along with the local ambiance and experience what it offers. Being one with the feel of a place and adapting to its existing conditions, surroundings and situations prepare us for the course ahead. By accepting the local culture of a region, we can invite peace, satisfaction, friendship and happiness.

    Disrespect towards a native practice or opposition towards its followers give way to misunderstandings and troubles. While one may not conform to every belief of the land or agree with every single aspect of a place, blending along with the atmosphere around opens the path for more progress and development. Interest towards the local practices, lifestyle, food, culture, beliefs and behavior offer insights of the place. Paving way for more connections, relations, bonding and memories, acceptance of local culture certainly plays an important role. By opening our arms towards the local experience, we invite new variations into our routine. Accepting the good offerings of a land and combining it with that of our own enable us to learn, develop, grow and prosper.

    A significant factor that confers its prominent effect is willingness to adapt and adopt. Adapting ourselves to situation around and adopting their true form is the key to long-lasting happiness. While we may not completely adhere to the beliefs of the local land, eagerness to experience and desire to comprehend add fodder to our knowledge base. As we toil to visualize their routine course and wonder about their usual conduct, we come closer to the magic of local air. By opening our eyes to the variations around us, we are able to sow seeds of progress, growth, development and improvement.

    Besides adopting local culture, the thought prompts us to accept prevailing situations and surrounding circumstances. Living in the present, while adapting to changing scenario depicts the power of time. Moving along with passing time and marching ahead with strength of confidence bring happiness and joy into our lives. Staying firm over our own conduct without adjusting with the place around contributes to sadness, sorrow, disappointment and failure.

With these valuable aspects, let us march towards the concluding remarks over this thought.

·         Adjusting with local ambiance and accepting the feel of a place can make us one with the surrounding.

·         Respecting the sentiments of local folks and displaying willingness towards their conduct can introduce us to wide range of experiences.

·         As we observe the lifestyle, mannerism, conduct and ambiance of a location, we come closer to its offerings.

·         Accepting, adapting, adopting and experimenting are some of the key verbs to be followed, while experiencing the ambiance of local land and rejoicing under its feel.

·         Ability to adjust and accept paves way for flexibility in life; as we demonstrate an interest towards the new surroundings, we invite development and march towards progress.

·         Willingness to be one with the ambiance showers us with wide range of benefits, besides adding to our knowledge base, it expands our horizon and shows us endless possibilities in the world.

·          By accepting local culture, prevailing situations, surrounding conditions and present circumstances, we can move along with time and invite positivity and progress.

   With seven inspirational halts, as we move towards the last one, this pull of proverbs has certainly worked wonders. Though these proverbs have entered through the mode of books and curriculum, experiencing their power once again through series of these blogs has been truly exciting in every way.

As a ‘verb’ that ‘prompts’ or a ‘proactive’ thought that ‘works’, ‘proverbs’ shall certainly remain the talk of town! 

While walking inside the proverbial park…6

   

    An extensive club with innumerable members – proverbs, thoughts, quotes and phrases can certainly never cease. Playing with words that reflect meaning, value, substance and wisdom, each of these aspects are extremely essential for an enlightened soul. As we inculcate their essence into our living, we realize the power and influence. Though proverbs may never gain an entry into our usual conversation, their memories and references can leave a long-lasting impact.

  As the blogger in me wanders in this park, once again; the next thought appears motivational and inspirational, while drawing our attention towards its influence.

Halt 6: Where there is a will, there is a way.

    A self-explanatory thought with valuable meaning, this proverb applies to each and every individual, situation, circumstance and condition. Willingness to succeed and determination to proceed are two precious keys for progress. Strong desire to march towards the finish line powers our efforts along the way. Every task demands preparation, hard work, devotion and sincerity. Ready results or quick solutions may offer temporary happiness and satisfaction, but these aspects can never replace the purity of our efforts.

     Paving way for our own life constitutes the backbone of our existence. Relying on excuses for uncertain circumstances or depending on others for our own success and happiness represents the weakness behind our thoughts. By transforming an unsuitable situation into a favorable one and working towards positive outcome for every condition, we can ensure fruits of happiness, peace, joy and pleasure. Confidence, faith, devotion, trust, patience and perseverance are some of the most essential ingredients for a successful outcome. Making favorable arrangements and adjustments that suit the prevailing situations form the backbone of victory.

    Complaints about the available conditions or unwillingness to adapt to the existing circumstances can never take us towards joy. As one of the most significant components of the body, our mind plays an important role in every domain of life. Our thoughts, wishes, hopes and beliefs are instrumental towards achievements and success. Strong will power to transform failure into success or sorrow into happiness is the central core of our existence. 

    Though challenges and difficulties may raise their ugly heads quite often, staying positive and determined is the key to success. Unless we make our own way, we can never reach the destination. An aspect that applies to every situation, willingness to reach the end point is the true fuel for victory. While success can never be guaranteed, pleasure of investing our efforts and satisfaction of working hard towards it are the primary highlights of every task.

    Confidence and courage to succeed, unknowingly forms the striking feature of our personality as we strive towards a positive outcome each time. By decorating our attitude with willingness to succeed, we can inspire and motivate those around us. Staying patient, calm, peaceful and motivated amidst difficulties and worries represent the dedication in our conduct.

   With these words of inspiration that prompt us to work hard in every kind of situation, this thought certainly deserves our attention, commitment, acceptance and agreement.

What are the various ways in which this proverb can come to life?

Let us look at some of the interesting end statements that can complete the meaning of this proverb, adding value, bringing life!  

Where there is a will, there is a way ----

--- to overcome hurdles, cross hindrances and handle difficulties.

--- to accomplish without excuses and achieve without complaints.

--- to march ahead with faith and determination.

--- to continue efforts with success and hard work with devotion.

--- to reach the end point with happiness, joy, satisfaction and peace.

--- to achieve what one desires, without resorting to unfair means.

--- to engage in self-happiness and personal growth.

--- to involve in tasks that bring joy, satisfaction, peace and pleasure.

--- to succeed, evolve, progress and grow.

   With these endings that indicate new beginnings, will and way are all we need to move ahead in life. Soak in the power of these words and inculcate their value, after all life is about learning, growing, working and living!

While walking inside the proverbial park…5

    

     After four inspirational quotes with valuable meaning, as the blogger in me walks towards the next, there is energy in thoughts and enthusiasm in words. As phrases that teach and words that preach, proverbs are truly essential by all means. While these proverbs are nurtured into us right since our childhood, their real essence radiates all through the journey called life. Unexpected encounters and uncertain situations bring us closer to the real significance behind these thoughts, while we correlate them with our own life story.

 

     With this, as we halt for our next proverb, let us admire its relevance in our daily course of living.

Halt 5: Slow and steady wins the race

     Inspired by the famous rabbit and tortoise tale, this next thought prompts us to think, consider, analyze, interpret and conclude. While pride, overconfidence, unpreparedness and instability costs us, staying patient and slow takes us towards success. Though this thought may appear as a misfit under the light of modern world, fast lifestyle, quick changes and fast-paced development, it is necessary to adopt stability and patience in our conduct. While functioning with an active mind and energetic body is certainly essential for success and happiness, blending it with topping of patience enhances the flavor of joy.

        Steadiness in our conduct points to the stage of maturity. With stable thought process, it is possible to hunt for options, solutions, answers and conclusions. Impatient and unprepared attitude point to the greed for success without evaluating all the aspects carefully. Hasty decisions with an aim to bag quick happiness or incorrect means to reach the destination can harm us in the long run. Though short-cuts may take us towards the finish line, it can never give us long-lasting peace and satisfaction.

      Though today’s fast paced ambiance demands quick decisions and quicker actions, it should be carried out with a stable attitude. Careful consideration of the prevailing situations and surrounding atmosphere can ensure flawless efforts and yield successful outcome. Crawling slowly and steadily at a snail’s pace is more beneficial than running around at an express speed. In an attempt to reach the finish line if we act in haste, we may end up with raw efforts and unripe fruits. 

     Influence of such conditions makes it essential to adopt stability and accept steadiness as a way of living. Besides offering peace, satisfaction and happiness, stable attitude points to the aspects of maturity, patience, humility and simplicity. By trusting our inner self and working towards the end product with an easy conduct, we can radiate its charm all around. Inspiring others to follow suit, our stable and patient approach can demonstrate its magic instantly. As others realize the significance of slow and steady manner, it can inspire them to appreciate, adopt, accept and exhibit.

     While some situations demand fast actions and rapid reactions, evaluating such conditions carefully and acting in the necessary manner can shower happiness and joy.

With these factors in mind, let us look at the concluding highlights of this proverb.

    Penned with a view to summarize the need, benefits, advantages and necessities of stability, these highlights can act as our take-away pointers for life!

1.       Slow and steady approach prompts us to analyze, examine, observe, evaluate and understand before reaching the final conclusion.

2.       Stability and steadiness are the keys to long-lasting peace and satisfaction.

3.       Hasty decisions or impatient judgments can harm us in the long run.

4.       Though quick actions and quicker reactions are essential for success and victory, it is also important to calculate our steps for a constructive outcome.

5.       Overconfidence over our skills or excess pride over our efforts may distract us from our goals.

6.       Steady pace motivates us to march ahead with confidence.

7.       Though modern world demands fast-paced action, careful consideration of every aspect before the final reaction ensures success, happiness and satisfaction in magnified amounts.

      With this, as we march slowly and steadily towards our goal, we can enjoy the fruits at a perfect stage. Be steady and stable as you move towards the finish line, after all not every race demands the first position, most challenges need patience, perseverance, consistency and determination.