Picking up threads, from where you left them…

     

To start with this blog, I will request you to put your imagination to work for the following situations:

Situation 1: ‘You meet your gang of school friends after a long time. As you spend quality time and talk about good, old days, you are instantly transported to your school times. Unknowingly as your conversation gains power, you forget about the present and get the feel of being back in school. Though each one of you has moved ahead on the journey with diverse careers and unique courses, things remain the same between your buddies, who know everything about your childish habits and naughty behavior.’

Situation 2: ‘Your sibling has moved abroad for higher education or career. You are miles away from each other, yet your conversations on phone or video chats revolve around petty fights and arguments of mishandling the room or sharing certain things or who is parents’ favorite. When you meet after a long time, things do not change a bit. No matter how far you go or how disconnected you seem to be, you are back to your normal form, as soon as you meet.

Situation 3: ‘You have moved away from your home city for work. You may not meet your parents for a long time, yet your mother asks her favorite set of questions about your food, health, routine etc. Even though you are an adult with decent levels of maturity, your mother will never cease her questions and worries. You return back home to be welcomed by a loving father with his inspirational talks or a loving mother with her complaints against your carelessness.

Situation 4: ‘You have shifted away from your old childhood building or neighborhood for better prospects far away. Yet one visit back to the place bring back wonderful memories instantly. Before you realize, you meet your old friends or neighbors and relive the good times for doses of laughter, while coloring your mischievous childhood stories.’

I hope you enjoyed this session of imagination as every situation was truly amazing to think about. 

Now, what did you find common among each of these episodes?

Though characters and plot were distinct during each time, what is the central theme governing every aspect?

   Call it love, bonding, affection or attachment, certain people form a permanent tie with you forever. Such is the binding power of this adhesive, you will never be able to remove it off, even if you wanted to. Relations like these remain untouched for years, yet look fresh and new, when you look at it after a long time. You may not be able to meet them for months and years, let alone days, yet you will find nothing has ever changed. The distance or separation turns into an insignificant factor, as you bring back the good, old times.

  For such relations, absence means nothing at all. Though you may not see each other often, you are able to continue the conversation, right from where you left. Several changes may enter into your journey, while you were away from your family or friends, but nothing of it matters, when you are back together. There is no awkwardness to be back to your normal childish form, when you meet your school friends after years and years into the future. Some ties are designed for being intact and comfortable, irrespective of the gap of distance. As hearts and minds remain connected, geographical distance or lack of time turn into insignificant factors.

     If a relation demands your time every single day of the year, it does not qualify to be strong. This does not mean, I am proposing distance between relations, just to check their strength. It simply means, situations and circumstances may change at any given point of time, demanding us to be flexible. During such uncertain times, we may be forced to move away. Though your reason may differ, the reality of being away from closed ones should not make you weak. Instead you will realize that these wonderful relations keep you going, even miles away.

    Your best buddies from school, college or neighborhood; your loving parents; your naughty yet caring siblings will all remain the same, waiting for you at the same spot with same smiles, as you return back. Physical distance, time zone difference, change in responsibilities or simply change in your lifestyle can do nothing to hamper with such relations. It is like picking threads from where you left, staying intact all this while. You will be surprised that things do not change at all, while you joke about pranks in school with your bunch of friends or your mother feeds you with love, even though you may have turned into a master chef yourself.

     Such is the beauty of certain relations that last forever. This does not mean we can take them for granted. We certainly need to strengthen them with love, care, affection and trust from time to time to enjoy their presence always. They will definitely stay for you as long as you respect their role. In an uncertain world and fragile life, where nothing seems to be under our control, such strong ties are all we have to walk along the journey of life.

Celebrate the presence of such close people in your life, who will wait for you at the same spot forever. Thank them for their patience and love them for their purity, as these threads will not break unless you pull it yourself!

P.S: A big hug to my parents for all their concern, even while being miles away.

 Lots of love to my sister, though I will continue to have loads of complaints against you forever.

Thank you all my school and college friends who bear my stupidity, yet never seem to complain!

Do you have FOMO?

   

    Now, before you quit this post for such an unusual title, let me jump straight to the point. For all you cool millennials born after the year 2000, this abbreviation will be a routine part of your dictionary. But for all those like me before the 2000s, this word may come across as a surprise. Whether you know it by the virtue of your coolness quotient or whether you have heard it for the first time, FOMO is the new-age fear of missing out. Fear of missing out from social media, happening events, cool celebrations or fancy occasions, FOMO is the new trouble gripping us like the flu. Thanks to fast speed internet, virtual connectivity, dozens of social media apps and an interest to be ‘online’, this FOMO shall not go away so easily.

   Imagine your day from start to end in today’s world. With close association of smart phones, it is difficult to stay away from the internet. As every single detail gains an entry into our Facebook walls, twitter pages or WhatsApp groups, it is impossible to stay aloof. Call it herd mentality, peer pressure, fear of rejection or restlessness of being left out, our social lives have truly changed in every way. 

   

   While I am no exception to the growing trend, the blogger in me was tempted to touch this unusual side of our life in a funny way. Gone are the days of mouth publicity, when news of any good deeds were spread through talks. Today, all we have is an account on social media to broadcast every single happening event of our lives. Good, bad, happy, sad everything has to be recorded over the media apps to stay connected in the real world.

   Bad internet connection is our worst fear today as staying away from constant updates can affect our mental health! Such is the growing influence of virtual presence that it is necessary to undergo detoxification from time to time. While relying over these apps and websites for ease of connectivity, we may have erased the thin line between necessity and compulsion. Posting about every outing, meal, celebration or routine day has turned into a mandatory affair in order to be accepted in the society. 

    For those staying miles away from home, this facility turned into a convenience to be in touch with family and friends always. Yet, it can never justify the need to post the pictures of meal before actually relishing the food or checking in details at a location before exploring it completely.

   It is always said that it is essential to live in the moment, enjoy the present, make memories and treasure it forever. But with today’s inclination towards posting and posing, I believe this essence has lost its charm somewhere. The need to be active into virtual world may take us away from the happiness and joy in simple things. Unless we savor the present and enjoy it without the pressure to post it all over, we may not live life the way it is meant to be. In the spirit of declaring our plans, holidays, major occasions and events – we tend to stress over presentation rather than the actual content.  

  Looking at pictures of our friends or reading their posts and updates may force us to believe that our life is nowhere close to theirs. With this, as competition, jealousy, anxiety and anger steps in, it can hurt us in several unknown ways. Social media is designed for our connectivity, rather than dividing us on the basis of our lifestyle. Just because your friends post fancy pictures at exotic locations does not translate into failure of your own course. As each one of us have a unique journey to accomplish, the pressure to be in the ‘happening circuit’ always can turn into a pain.

    Posting every single detail of our lives, just to be acceptable among our social circle is truly the biggest mistake of our digital minds today. You can definitely paint the canvas without placing a close camera on your lives. While my virtual brain tempts me to broadcast details quite often, my grounded husband ensures adequate distance from FOMO for the both of us. Another unusual thing that depicts our growing FOMO is expression of feelings over the internet.  

    Why does a wife need to express love for her husband through long posts and poems over their social page, when it can be conveyed right across the room?

   Why does a son or daughter express all the love and affection for their parents over the internet, when all it takes is a phone call or direct conversation to say it all?

   Why do we need to wish our best friends for their special occasions through the medium of posts alone, is it difficult to meet and greet?

    Now, I am sure you may not completely agree with my views, but these are just few questions that do deserve some attention. Some of you may argue that it is the new-age expression of love, but I believe it can be contained and restricted in our own way. When such thoughts are raised, their aim is not to discourage us from the usage of social media, it is only to make us aware about its true requirement. Love does not fade away if we fail to declare it all over the world. No matter how loved, wanted and happy the virtual world makes you feel, some relations, moments, events and happenings are meant to be protected from the online pressure.

   Fear of missing out may last for a few days, but the regret of not enjoying every moment to the fullest may last forever. Our presence over the internet, likes over the photos, comments over the posts and praises through messages will go away with passing time. But our memories, happiness and joy will definitely stay close always.

    This does not mean complete boycott of social media, it simply means understanding its usage wisely. It is definitely essential to try out every new trend in the society to live life to the fullest. I cannot deny the joy of seeing likes over my own pictures or comments on my posts, yet it is essential to stay away from the fear of missing out. As social media is an important means for writers like me, I can never turn my back to this interesting invention. But, I believe we can truly erase this FOMO before it hurts us. Impulsive need to show our presence over the internet or match the happening course of our friends can pose more harm than good.

     As long as we can realize this trouble and recognize the entry of FOMO into our system, we can unplug our lives at the right time. It is not about knowing what to post, it is about knowing when, how and why that can prevent us from any troubles.

    Hope, we all stay away from this artificial FOMO, because we have enough natural fears to take care of!

P.S: Article of such a topic deserves discussion and arguments. I would love to hear your feedback and thoughts over the same. Just because I posed this article, it does not mean my absence from the social media, I will continue to stay connected with you always (but without any FOMO!!!!)  

Song 6: Pyar ke Pal by KK

Hum, rahen ya na rahen kal
Kal yaad aayenge ke ye pal
Pal, ye hain pyar ke pal
Chal, aa mere sang chal
Chal, soche kya
Chhoti si, hai zindagi
Kal, mil jaaye to hogi khush-naseebi

Hum rahen ya na rahen yaad aayenge ye pal

Hum rahen ya na rahen kal
Kal, yaad aayenge ye pal
Pal, ye hain pyar ke pal
Chal, aa mere sang chal
Chal, soche kya
Chhoti si, hai zindagi
Kal, mil jaaye to hogi khush-naseebi

Hum rahen ya na rahen yaad aayenge ye pal

Shaam ka aanchal, odh ke aayee dekho woh raat suhani
Aa likh dein hum dono milke apni ye prem kahani
Hum rahen ya na rahen yaad aayenge ye pal

Aane waali subah jaane rang kya laaye deewanee,
Meri chaahat ko rakh lena jaise koi nishani
Hum rahen ya na rahen yaad aayenge ye pal

Hum rahen ya na rahen kal
Kal, yaad aayenge ye pal
Pal, ye hain pyar ke pal
Chal, aa mere sang chal
Chal, soche kya chhoti si hai zindagi
Kal mil jaaye to hogi khush-naseebi

Hum rahen ya na rahen yaad aayenge ye pal
Hum rahen ya na rahen yaad aayenge ye pal

  A song that definitely brings tears during farewell of any kind, these lyrics have been ruling our hearts since several years now. Speaking about nostalgia, memories, moments, love, friendship, happiness and life – the song ‘Pyar ke Pal’ by famous Bollywood singer KK is truly incredible in every way. 

  

   Though it dates back to almost 14 years in the past, it still manages to spread its charm especially during farewell days along bitter-sweet good-byes. As this wonderful number was released during our last year in school, it undoubtedly holds special memories for me and my school friends, accompanied by rolling tears and sea of fantastic memories. While framing the flow of songs for my musical express, I realized this was truly a perfect piece to end my series. Singing about memories and talking about moments, it focuses over the value of our past.

    The beauty of this simple number lies in its meaningful lyrics. Notes of guitar add magic to its rhythm that flows in a flawless manner. Each of the words talk about the beauty of memories and moments as they fill our lives with purpose and hope. No amount of wealth, assets, treasure or belongings can replace the joy of memorable moments spent with our loved ones. As life is too short to think or worry about the future, the song prompts one to remember such moments forever. Nostalgic memories have the power to radiate a sense of satisfaction, reminding us of the beautiful past.

    Besides celebrating memories and moments, this song talks about the uncertainties of tomorrow. While none of us are aware about the events of the future, all we can do is rejoice in the present and live it to the fullest. It prompts us about the need to collect valuable moments spent with loved ones. Celebrating our love, preserving it a safe manner, valuing the presence of closed ones and protecting this bond forever are some of the aspects to ride along the journey of life. As nothing is permanent and everything is uncertain, it is essential to color our lives with love, affection, attachment and bonds. They are the only assets with a lifelong value.

   Lyrics of this song have an exceptional capacity to force you down the memory lane. Listen to this song at any time of the day and you will find yourself in a pool full of beautiful memories. Be it school, college, childhood, marriage, adulthood or vacation, this song can definitely offer you unmatched levels of joy. Though memories or moments are usual occurrences in any individual’s life, these wonderful lyrics add rhythm, tune, melody and music to your train of thoughts.

      Coming to the customized section of my blog, I will frame down the reasons that make these ‘Pyar ke Pal’ so special in our lives!

©       Memories are permanent treasures that cannot be erased from our system. They stay intact all through our lifetime, reminding us of the glorious past.

©       They bring back happy times, taking us to the good, old happenings in our life.

©       Memories exhibit the support, love and affection of our loved ones, offering a sense of satisfaction that life is made of all the wonderful people we meet, greet, share and care.

©       Memories reflect our roller coaster ride, they depict the good and not-so-good experiences as we walk through the course of ups and downs.

©       Memories measure the life in us, they remind us that our journey was exciting so far, pumping enthusiasm for the further curriculum!

       Think about the reasons that make memories valuable and precious. Each of your ‘Pyar ke Pal’ will fill your lives with smiles and hearts with love.

With this, as my musical express comes to its final stop, I hope you enjoyed the lyrical journey of some of the amazing numbers in my account. Lyrics make the song and song makes our life as rhythm is all we need to keep going forever and ever....

Song 5: Words by Bee Gees/Boyzone

Words (lyrics)

Smile, an everlasting smile
A smile can bring you near to me
Don't ever let me find you gone
Cause that would bring a tear to me
This world has lost it's glory
Lets start a brand new story
Now my love
You think that I don't even mean
A single word I say...
It's only words
And words are all I have
To take your heart away

Talk, in everlasting words
And dedicate them all, to me
And I will give you all my life
I'm here if you should call to me
You think that I don't even mean
a single word I say...


This world has lost it's glory
Let's start a brand new story
Now, my love
You think that I don't even mean
a single word I say...

    After a month long vacation in my home country with unlimited doses of fun, laughter, food and memories, it was time to return back to the pavilion. Post these 30 days of joy and fun, our jet-lagged eyes and tired mind will definitely need some more time to get back into action. Though my association with words continued during the break too, I looked at them with pleasure rather than responsibility. Framing posts and writing articles was more of fun and less of duty during these long days of vacation. Now, while returning back to the same, old story with pre-defined plot and pre-determined characters, I hunted for an appropriate song that could express my state of mind.

     While continuing my musical express with impacting lyrics, I looked around for the perfect song that can describe my re-association with words. As work demands attention and job demands words, this exciting song by the title ‘Words’ seemed totally perfect in every way. An original song by group Bee Gees that was re-recorded by the famous band Boyzone, ‘It’s only words’ gained instant popularity among the audience back then. A romantic number that expresses the feelings of the singer towards his love of life, this song talks about the power of words. As words are the only means to communicate his love, the writer depicts the strength in their tale. By describing the truth in words, the writer hopes to establish a strong bond.

   Now, after reading the flow of these lyrics, you must be wondering about their inclusion in the musical express. How can a romantic number fit into this express that celebrates the power of words? Though the original purpose of the song revolves around love and its associated feelings, I admire this song for its appreciation of ‘words’. As a writer, while dealing with these friends day in and day out, I have realized their value in my life. Though this song takes a love-filled turn, I enjoy interpreting it in my way. For a song that celebrates the power in words, it describes the strength in their course. 

   

Words are the valuable pieces of our story that depict honesty and truthfulness, bringing the best in our lives. They stand as mirrors showing us true image in every way. Though we may not realize it, words leave an irreplaceable mark in the journey of our life. Actions are assumed to be stronger than words, but in reality what we speak and how we present our stand is much more impacting than any other means of expression.

    Words can leave a permanent effect, making it essential to weigh them in a correct manner. Words designed with an aim to hurt, insult, criticize or taunt can never yield any positive effect. It is important to choose our words with care and utilize them for good outcome rather than any inferior motive. Many a times, we allow our mood and mind to take charge, resulting in unacceptable flow of words. Though we may not mean it, yet our anger may fill our vocabulary with certain words only to be regretted later. This makes it essential to focus on our choice of words and spread cheer all around. As words are the central components of any communication, it is important to use them wisely.

    After entering into the field of writing, I realized the significance of rich literature. Good selection of words and flawless flow of the chain is all it takes to grab the attention of a reader. This song will always stay close to my heart for celebrating the love of words. The phrase ‘And words are all I have to take your heart away’ seems to convey my message in a perfect manner as words are indeed all I have to take my profession ahead.

     With this, let me write a quick note on why I love words:

1.       They speak your heart with true image of what’s in store.

2.       Words express, convey, speak and present all the ideas seeded deep within our minds.

3.       Words leave a long-lasting impression, making a powerful impact.

4.       Words generate feelings of happiness and love, conveying the thoughts in our mind.

5.       Core of communication, words are all we have to create space in someone’s life.

While I bid good-bye to an unwanted jet-lag, I hope to reconnect with my friends of words. Until I come back with my next post in the series, enjoy the magic of these words!

   

Song 4: I want to live like animals – Animal song (Savage Garden)

 When superstars and cannonballs are running through your head 

A television freak show cops and robbers everywhere
Subway makes me nervous, people pushing me too far
I've got to break away
So take my hand now


'Cause I want to live like animals
Careless and free like animals
I want to live
I want to run through the jungle
The wind in my hair and the sand at my feet

I've been having difficulties keeping to myself
Feelings and emotions better left up on the shelf
Animals and children tell the truth, they never lie
Which one is more human
There's a thought, now you decide

Compassion in the jungle
Compassion in your hands, yeah
Would you like to make a run for it
Would you like to take my hand, yeah


Sometimes this life can get you down
It's so confusing
There's so many rules to follow
And I feel it
'Cause I just run away in my mind

Superstars and cannonballs running through your head
Television freak show cops and robbers everywhere
Animals and children tell the truth, they never lie
Which one is more human
There's a thought, now you decide

Compassion in the jungle
Compassion in your hands, yeah
Would you like to make a run for it
Would you like to take my hand, yeah 

    Once again, the credit for introducing me to this song goes to my sister who truly has a fantastic taste towards music. More than the rhythm, I admire the lyrical power of this song created by one of the most talented musicians of the yesteryears. Bringing amazing music for their listeners with touch of meaningful lyrics, Australian pop duo Savage Garden have been extremely popular for several years now. One such masterpiece by the name ‘I want to live like animals or the Animal song’ has gained an entry into my musical express due to its carefree touch. In the maddening rush of life with its demands, chaos, expectations and responsibilities, this song reaches the chords of the heart in a perfect way.

   Though this song was set in the good, old times where life was still not so chaotic, Savage Garden seemed to be ahead of their time. While expressing the desire to set themselves free, these lyrics will truly relate to each one of us. A carefree song with extremely carefree style, ‘I want to live like animal’ comes across as the theme of our heart. Many a times, when life imposes tons of troubles, besides taking us through the routine every single day, we reach a threshold limit for any further action. Lyrics of this song express the desire of the singer duo, as they wish to enter into a carefree zone like animals. Without any stress of greeting people, meeting deadlines, fulfilling responsibilities and performing tasks, as the writer hopes to walk away from everything, it leaves a wonderful note for all.

    We all experience stressful moments along our course, while juggling wide array of duties. Besides work, elements such as people, relationships, moral duties and ethics demand our attention. Carefree life like animal without any image trouble seems to be the perfect answer for eternal happiness. As humans, we are forced to live under rules of humanity. Call it society pressures or humanly troubles, we are expected to follow certain guidelines for being human. 

While caught within this game of showing our best behavior, we may tend to focus over our image in the society. Though it is essential to exhibit humanity in the best form, it is also important to do what our heart wants. In an attempt to polish our image in the society, we may stop living our life to the fullest. By staying within the limits of good behavior, ethical values, acceptable manners and pure nature, we can continue our life in an enjoyable manner.

   How does one balance this thin line between image and ethics is a tough task, as it summarizes our entire life in a short way.  

   By hoping to live like an animal, writer of this song wants to get away from all the challenges and difficulties. The thought of running carefree into a jungle with wind in the hair and sand at the feet seems to be perfect in every way. This central thought was the highlight of my affection, as I was attracted towards the magic of its words. Just imagine yourself into the plot of this song, enjoying every single desire as expressed by the writer, and I am sure you will be tempted to break away from the routine.

   Though it sounds exciting, you must be wondering about the practicality quotient of such a thought.

 

Is it possible to leave away everything and run around like an animal?

If given a choice, would you like to throw away the luxuries of a stable life?

Would you be happy to live life by your own rules, without worrying about your ‘image’ in the society?

Before I lose your attention over these thought provoking questions, let me move towards the last segment of my post.

I will list down my reasons to live like an animal, while you can think about yours too!

I want to live like animals because:

·         carefree approach can bring out the best in me as a writer, dreamer, admirer and wanderer.

·         it will dissolve boundaries and limitations from my ‘so-called’ ideal life and allow me to explore newer things.

·         it will erase away the troubles of maintaining an image, while letting me embrace every single aspect with love.

·         it will shift the focus over living my life to the fullest, rather than living it as per worldly expectations.

·         it will dissolve any train of thoughts in my mind that revolve around unnecessary expectations of the society.

Truly one of the most interesting lyrics I have come across, this song qualifies to be my favorite song in several ways. For a unique meaning with novel touch, ‘Animal song’ is my answer to go away from stress and embrace happiness! 

Song 3: Love you Zindagi

   

   Continuing my lyrical series ahead, it is time for the next magical number. After two English songs, I will explore our dear Bollywood for an inspirational note. Stuck in my ears with its powerful lyrics and soothing music is a latest song from the movie ‘Dear Zindagi’. Referring to life (Zindagi) as a friend and companion, this unconventional Bollywood movie depicted the amazing feeling of being alive.

   Though the depiction failed in box office due to lack of typical Bollywood spices, it left behind a wonderful message for all. Forgetting the past, living in the present and staying away from the future thoughts or worries was the bottom-line of this movie that showed the power of embracing life.

  This movie definitely inspired the blogger in me delivering new ideas to the flow of my thoughts. While the writer in me touches each of these factors through the means of words, I was excited to see it over screen. Back to the lyrical journey, the title track of this movie by the name ‘Love you Zindagi’ is my latest fascination, playing in loop. A dialogue between self and life, the song oozes out inspiration in every single word. While the singer treats her life as a close friend, she talks about their sweet-sour relationship. With its rhythmic flow and meaningful lyrics, this piece has truly won my heart in every way.

    It talks about the need to embrace life in a wonderful way, keeping away worries and troubles at bay. It prompts each one to accept what they love, while rejecting what they hate. Living life by our choice is the primary core of enjoying it to the fullest. Our decisions and choices shape the form of our life, giving us direction for happiness and joy. Choosing happiness over sorrow and hope over despair is the act that can lead to eternal peace for a lifetime. What we do for a living or how we spend the course of our life is our primary task in hand. Depending on others for their evaluation, appreciation, judgments and decisions can lead to hollowness in our path ahead.

     This song describes unique love-hate relationship between us and life. At times, we are excited and enthusiastic about several events in our life followed by low lying dull moments without any charm. From happiness to sorrow, enthusiasm to disinterest, hope to despair and success to failure, we find ourselves swinging and dancing to the tunes of life. After all, life does not believe in certainty. Uncertain situations and circumstances govern our way, forcing us to adopt to changes in a positive way.

  Writers of this song have truly created a masterpiece, as they communicate with life in a direct manner. Expressing our love and affection towards life, at the same time sharing good and not so good thoughts about it can take us closer to its core.

  Inspired by this interesting idea of talking to life, I am tempted to write a short note too! Let me try my hands at chalking down the sweet and sour flavors of this ‘friend’ who means the world to each one of us.

Dear Zindagi,

Your sweetness reflects in a variety of ways. Though listing down this comprehensive note may not cover every single aspect, it is my little attempt to celebrate your existence:

1.       It feels amazing when you shower us with opportunities and support us to fulfill all our dreams.

2.       Your surprises bring out the best moments in our journey, while you choose to bless us with unexpected moments of achievement.

3.       You allow us to write our own unique story with our plot, characters, theme and genre. This flexibility is the reason for our happiness as we can fill your clean slate with our wonderful words.

Your sourness does bother us to a certain extent, but after all it is a part of the parcel!

1.       Your uncertain timing tends to bother our plans, as you enjoy throwing unexpected situations over our heads

2.       Your fast pace is another aspect that confuses us. Before we realize a new year has started, it is time to gear up for the next year celebration

3.       Your mixed signals can tend to be confusing. At times, you fill us with enthusiastic approach to perform a task, but soon you may take it away in the blink of a moment.

 With this my lyrical journey halts at the next stop. See you next week with yet another song with its magical words.

Lyrics:

Jo dil se lage
Usse keh do hi, hi, hi, hi

Jo dil na lage
Usse keh do bye, bye, bye, bye

Aane do, aane do
Dil mein aa jaane do
Kehdo muskurahat ko
Hi, hi, hi, hi

Jaane do, jaane do
Dil se chale jaane do
Keh do ghabrahat ko
Bye, bye, bye, bye, bye-bye

Love you zindagi, Love you zindagi
Love you zindagi, Love me zindagi

Kabhi hath pakad ke tu mera
Chal de, chal de
Kabhi hath chuda ke main tera
Chal doon, chal doon

Main thodi si moody hoon
Tu thodi si tedhi hai
Kya khoob ye jodi hai
Teri meri..

Aane do aane do
Dil mein aa jaane do
Keh do muskurahat ko
Hi, hi, hi, hi

Jaane do, jaane do
Dil se chale jaane do
Kehdo ghabrahat ko
Bye, bye, bye, bye, bye-bye

Love you zindagi, Love you zindagi
Love you zindagi, Love me zindagi

Lyrics courtesy: http://www.lyricsted.com

Song 2: Summer of ‘69: Those were the best days of my life

      After ticking off first song from my list, it is time to explore the next contender in the race. Though I was never a keen fan of western music, I was introduced to the world of English songs by my enthusiastic sister. A fan of all things musical, her interest pulled me towards some of the most famous songs from the western world. Slowly and steadily as my ears moved towards the sound of its beats, I realized a new found love.

     One of the most famous songs from singer Bryan Adams – ‘Summer of ‘69’ formed a great mark in my heart. Though it has great music to its credit, I was amazed by its simple, yet meaningful lyrics. Swinging over nostalgic memories, as Bryan recollects summer of his young days, the song has wonderful words for the audience.

     This song celebrates the power of nostalgia as each one of us have some valuable memories linked to various phases of our life. Though routine life moves along, we all have some memorable days with its sweet essence that lingers forever. Such is the power of memories that they can cheer us on our ‘not so happy’ days. While we experience sorrow or boredom, these colorful memories can add their much needed shade. Surprisingly, some of the darkest moments transform into happier times as we think about the wonderful past.

   As the singer remembers their carefree days with love for his musical band, the song brings life to every single word. Though a simple piece with usual moments in a person’s life, the song prompts us to ride over nostalgia. As it centers on youth and friends, it has a wonderful feel. Each one of us have memorable moments with our friends as we move along a carefree zone of our life.

  Best days of our life bring us back to good, old times. Significant events, important occasions, major developments and fun-filled days gain an entry into our nostalgic memories as we remember them forever for the rest of our lives. Besides remembering interesting memories, this song talks about changing shades of life. While moving along our routine journey, we may not reflect over past times. Yet, nostalgia has the ability to remind us about amazing days from yesteryears. 

  Though we enjoy our present, we are forced to encounter unexpected situations along the way. This gives way to the concept of valuable memories as we choose to remember the good rather than cry over the bad. Certain moments in our life click as the perfect opportunities for unlimited stock of happiness. Though they may last for a short while, they register themselves forever. Their remembrance drags us back to the good times, hoping for a repeat all over again.

     After appreciating the flow of its lyrics, let me introduce a customized touch. While I will frame down some of my best days so far, I would urge you to do the same. Pen down your own list, as you scroll through mine. I am sure these phases may sync with those on your list, as we all move over the same route one way or the other.

Those were the best days of my life….

·         School days – carefree, educative, amazing, sweet-sour, boring, fun-filled, interesting and everything that makes us what we are today. School days are undoubtedly the best days one can ever have. My love for words took me to an interesting thought. I will make a sincere attempt to reproduce it for you. ‘When we were little kids, we stared at school gate; waiting to walk out of it into a free world. Only to realize that after numerous long years, we stare at it once again, hoping to be called back within its protective arms.’

                    

·         Days spent with family after staying away for long- reunions, endless talks, unlimited smiles and loads of fun

·         Days with friends – talks, fights, philosophical discussion, contemplation and retrospection, fun, mischief.

·         Lonely days spent with inner self –reflective, analytical, progressive, new thoughts and newer plans

·         Vacation from work – peaceful, relaxing, stress-free, unlimited happiness, disconnection from the world.

        Qualifying as some of the best days of my life, each of these categories represent my version of the song. Reflecting over such good times can brighten our face with smiles. Interpreting lyrics of songs in your own style is truly an interesting and unique way to enjoy them.

P.S: I want to thank all you readers for your feedback last week. One feedback note gave me the idea to include lyrics of song as part of the post. Hope you enjoy it, as you list down your best days too!


Summer of '69 

I got my first real six-string
Bought it at the five-and-dime
Played it 'til my fingers bled
Was the summer of '69

Me and some guys from school
Had a band and we tried real hard.
Jimmy quit, Jody got married
I should've known we'd never get far

Oh, when I look back now
That summer seemed to last forever
And if I had the choice
Yeah, I'd always wanna be there
Those were the best days of my life

Ain't no use in complainin'
When you've got a job to do
Spent my evenings down at the drive-in
And that's when I met you, yeah

Standin' on your mama's porch
You told me that you'd wait forever
Oh, and when you held my hand
I knew that it was now or never
Those were the best days of my life

Oh, yeah.
Back in the summer of '69, oh.

Man we were killin' time
We were young and restless
We needed to unwind
I guess nothin' can last forever, forever, no! yeah!

And now the times are changin'
Look at everything that's come and gone
Sometimes when I play that old six-string
I think about you, wonder what went wrong

Standin' on your mama's porch
You told me that it'd last forever
Oh, and when you held my hand
I knew that it was now or never
Those were the best days of my life

Oh, yeah.
Back in the summer of '69, oh.
It was the summer of '69, oh, yeah.
Me and my baby in '69, oh.
It was the summer, the summer, the summer of '69, yeah.

Source: www.azlyrics.com 

Song 1: My favorite things from Sound of Music

  

  After a long introduction of my Musical Express in the last week’s blog, it is time to commence the journey on a rhythmic note. Sit back and enjoy this musical tour as I take you through some of my favorite songs for their interesting choice of words.

    The Sound of Music was undoubtedly one of the most famous musicals dated back to the early 1900s. Set against the backdrop of a young woman who takes care of seven children, the musical was characterized by melodious songs and wonderful lyrics. Though The Sound of Music is an old musical crafted years ago, it has managed to spread its charm even today. Each of its songs were marked by meaningful words from the English literature that left an impact in its own way.

   But, if this Sound of Music was created several years before my birth, how did it gain entry into my collection? The answer lies in my family, as The Sound of Music held some close memories in my household.

   I was introduced to this wonderful musical through my father who has been my English teacher since birth. Though he never exhibited any keen interest towards music, his distinct inclination towards this musical has always surprised me.  While, I am still hunting for the reason that made him enjoy this piece of music, I have clear memories of enjoying every single song from the collection. For a little kid back then, listening to such English music meant sincere efforts to master the language! Little did I know that years later, one of the songs from this musical will hold a significant place in my blog?

  Though every single song from the musical was entertaining, colorful, enjoyable and melodious, one particular song has always caught my attention. Describing a list of simple, favorite things as the singer expresses her affection for them, it describes the joy of simplicity. Though these favorite things are routine objects or incidences in her everyday life, the lyrics point towards their significance during sad times. When life presents thunder storms and heavy rains along the smooth patch of road, thoughts about our favorite things can bring some elements of happiness.

   The lyricist highlights the significance of happy memories and fun-filled remembrances as our favorite things can clear gloomy atmosphere in matter of minutes. When challenges and difficulties block our vision with clouds of worries, our favorite things can come to the rescue. Though the song talks about ‘things’, it does not emphasize over materialistic aspects alone. It expresses happiness over occurrences such as dew drops on roses, whiskers over kittens, melting snow in spring and girls dressed as fairies. The song focuses over happy things around us that can replace tears of sorrow. When situations seem uncertain and out of reach, it is beneficial to look around for moments of happiness. By thinking about our favorite things and colorful memories, we can eradicate sorrow in one way or the other.

    Favorite things are connected with positivity and charm, solving negative puzzles during cold and dark days. Though thoughts about these favorite things may not dissolve the mountain of worries, the song reminds about their influential power that can definitely help. They can certainly lower sadness in their own unique way, brightening the atmosphere with hope and joy.

    After thoughtful analysis of this wonderful song, I am prompted to add my unique shade to its lyrics. Listing down set of my favorite things will bring perfect justice to this tale, as lyrics tend to bring out the best of my words.

These are a few of my favorite things…

1.       My sister’s messages delivering my cute nephew’s images and videos

2.       Colors of leaves as they change their shades along diverse seasons

3.       Rain fall with their cool breeze

4.       Clear blue sky with white cotton ball of clouds

5.       Rising and falling waves on a beach

6.       Blue waters of the calm sea

7.       Laptop with draft of my articles

8.       Favorite food items with their delicious aroma

9.       New clothes in the closet

10.   Half –read novel with a gripping story

11.   Birthday cake

 The list can go on but it must be concluded. Think about your favorite things that mean the most to you. What is their significance, while you hope to erase cloud of worries, even though for a short while!

 Truly unique in every way, this song will always stay close to the writer and dreamer in me. After one memorable song, there are six more to go. Enjoy this musical express as I hop from one song to the next.

  

The Musical Express

    

    To state that music forms an essential part of our lives would be an understatement. Without doubt music has always played an integral role in our journey with its melodious tunes and rhythmic flow. Crossing boundaries of age, religion, culture, nationality, gender and lifestyle, music unites us all within its large umbrella. Divided by the choice of songs, yet united by the love for music, this art holds an essential position in our lives. Whether you enjoy fast beats or swing to smoother notes, whether you enjoy dancing to its tunes or just relaxing to its lyrics, music has diverse roles during diverse moods. With its variety and diversity, it manages to fit into every occasion. With such obvious factors, there is no doubt about our love and affection towards music.

    Music has the power to appeal to its listeners over several domains. Musical instruments, notes, rhythm, flow and lyrics tie around a common pole to offer perfect outcome for the ears. This amazing charm of music can never fade away in any manner. Songs are always designed to mesmerize its listeners offering pearls of surprise, every single time.

    Another interesting aspect that surprises me is its easy connectivity with the listeners. You may not comprehend the art behind creating melodious songs, but you can understand its charm as soon as it hits your ears. All you need is a happy heart and energetic mind to enjoy every single note of your favorite songs.

    With strong musical background from my maternal end, music always came across as an inherited asset. Though I am nowhere close to playing musical instruments or singing at a professional level, I always admired this gift that ran along in the family. While my musical talent is restricted to the walls of our house, there is something in its charm that drives me towards eternal happiness. Though music is more about tunes, melody, notes and rhythm, my love for words has pulled me towards the lyrical end. As I admire the beauty of songs, I am prompted to think about their lyrics first. While words do play an important role as they define the feel of songs, this attraction towards lyrics has paved way for more appreciation.

  Lyrics are the primary elements that can enhance a song. Meaningful lyrics that can touch your hearts tend to succeed for several years, leaving long-lasting impression forever. The flow of such lyrics enter into our mind as permanent records, staying safe for numerous years in the future. After recognizing this new-found love for lyrics, it was time to include it within the scope of my blogs. As my posts mirror thoughts, experiences, feelings and adventures, I was prompted to explore this domain under a different light.

  Successful amalgamation between my literary love for lyrics and rhythmic affection for music has given way to this new series of blogs. Taking the title forward, this series ‘The Musical Express’ will feature some of the most memorable songs from my list. Though these songs have melodious tunes, the primary reason for their inclusion is to celebrate the lyrics. Lyrics that have left behind some interesting memories or that mean something in usual course of my journey, this series will celebrate their existence. Each of these blog posts will explore the relevance of such lyrics in our lives. What do those lyrics mean to me today or what were they meant for, I hope to address it all.

    Spread over a range of seven lyrical wonders starting next week, the series will feature one song along each blog post. Hope you enjoy this musical express, as I strive to offer my love for music in a lyrical way!

P.S: I was tempted to list down all the seven songs, but the editor in me has refrained from doing so, keeping it a surprise! Hope you all enjoy as the magic unfolds along the way. 

Why is mind your best friend?

      

     

     Apart from the obvious reason that your mind stays with you all through the lifetime, there are several reasons to label your mind as a best friend. When any single thought enters into your system, your mind is the first recipient to process it. Mind is an essential component of our existence that can influence life in every way. Unless we make friends with our mind, we cannot expect happiness and peace. The first ever critic that responds to any act, the first ever listener that hears our thoughts out, the first ever speaker who talks inside our heads - mind is truly significant by all means. Mind reminds us of our good and not so bad acts. Though we may hide our true feelings and keep them away from our loved ones, it is impossible to act in the same way with our very own mind.

    If you are still not convinced about the thought, how else will you explain the need to stay quiet and spend some alone moments, during certain stressful situations?

Why do we like to be alone for certain moments, as a means to energize our system?

What is the thought behind loving ourselves?

Why do we engage into meditation and spirituality in order to motivate our mind?

  Each of these answers will point towards the significance of our mind. As a core of our lives, mind controls us closely. It strives to take us towards happiness and peace. Though mind can often lead us towards confusion, anger, hatred and sorrow, it is the first element that rejoices in our happiness. Encouragement during failure and motivation during sorrow are some of the tasks of this mind that cheers us up instantly. Even though we are surrounded by a dense network of our loved ones, we need a little motivation from our mind to pump energy.

     This article is not designed with an aim to endorse loneliness in any manner. It is framed to celebrate the love and support of this unsung hero that stays with us forever, yet ignored quite often. In order to strengthen its health and sharpen its role in our lives, it is necessary to invest in positivity, happiness, patience and peace. Positive thoughts pose as fodder for our mind, as they bring the best in our system. On the other hand, negativity does just the opposite, making it essential to stay away from unnecessary worries.

    Many a times in life, when we come across difficult situations, we hope to seek answers from within. Though our loved ones will support us in every way, unless we hear the solution from our own mind, we may not be able to act over the situation. After thorough analysis of the situation within our heart, we can come up with appropriate solutions. Quiet moments with our thoughts can expand our horizon. It prompts us to look beyond the impossibilities, while looking out for answers. Mind addresses our fears, worries, concerns and offers the best possible outcome. 

   We all share a sweet-sour relationship with our mind. Often, we fail to understand its motive, when it takes us away from the things we love or blocks our thoughts behind some unnecessary aspect. Though we may not be able to comprehend, it can lead to some possible positive elements in the future.

     Striking a perfect relationship with our mind can take us towards peace, happiness, satisfaction and unlimited love.

So, what makes mind your best friend?

1.       Motivation: It motivates you to take that fearful step. Though your loved ones may encourage you to step away from your comfort zone and try out various aspects, unless your mind prepares itself, you may not be able to fulfill the task.

2.       Happiness: Mind prompts you to celebrate your success. It offers you the highest level of satisfaction, as you rejoice over your efforts. It enhances your happiness and spreads joy all around.

3.       Boredom: Though boredom is often born as a result of being alone, your mind can benefit from energy and motivation if you toil to change your ambiance. While your loved ones play an important role in taking you away from boredom, it demands equal participation from your mind too.

4.       Sorrow: During times of sorrow, mind may force you to invest into negativity. It may present its sour face with unnecessary thoughts and worries. This makes it essential to move towards happy thoughts and spread motivation all around.

As mind plays an important role in our lives, it is impossible to state its value in every way. Though I have attempted to frame some of its magic, it may not offer a complete justification of its friendship.

Love yourself, talk to your mind, spend quality ‘me’ time and enjoy life- after all life is too short to stay away from this best friend who means the world!