While walking inside the proverbial park…8

     With long walks and adequate pondering, as this series comes to an end, it is time to throw light on a last thought, before bidding farewell to the world of proverbs. While it is impossible to greet each of the proverbs from the sea of literature and philosophy, writing about some of the key ones was certainly exciting in its own way. As we come to the last member of the team, this shining proverb will bring a happy ending. A proverb that shall deliver a long-lasting message for a lifetime, this eighth halt has lots to convey.

Halt 8: All that glitters is not gold

     Joining hands with the thought ‘Looks are deceptive’, our next proverb warns us about the dangers of attractive looks with hollow content. Though shining factors attract our attention and appear wonderful in every manner, they may not be the same throughout. Judging someone purely on the basis of looks or relying on a decision for its shiny appeal can invite troubles in the long run. Careful analysis and consideration are the key elements that need our attention. Drawing conclusion on the basis of attractive appearance can fail in its purpose. Though sight is the first factor that greets us while we approach any subject, it may not necessarily paint the complete picture.

    Comparison, jealously, hatred, anger and disappointment due to external look at things can always turn into reasons for sorrow. Though appearance may look attractive, it cannot necessarily translate into success. Glittering shades of any element may have a hidden story to its name. Though attractive looks seem wonderful, they need to be considered in a rightful manner. While every plot in life have their own unique share of ups and downs, each of these aspects can never appear on the surface. Judging a book by its cover can never reveal the contents hidden deep within.

     Understanding every factor from its core and analyzing it with proper knowledge depict signs of maturity. Hasty conclusions and impatient actions reflect our lack of understanding. Hunting for both external and internal knowledge is equally essential as it provides the complete picture, enabling clear perspective.

With these thoughts that shine and glow, what are the factors that demand our attention?

·         Glittering look and shining appeal may not always represent precious content.

·         Deceptive looks are the primary cause of sorrow, disappointment and regret.

·         Though external features may appear attractive and tempt us towards them, understanding the content hidden deep within is equally essential.

·         Judgments and conclusions drawn through external appearance may fail in their purpose, making it essential to rely on proper consideration

·         Attractive aspects may draw our attention towards them, yet proper analysis with deeper thoughts present the real picture.

So while looks may attract you, or an interesting sight may tempt you, it may not necessarily translate into success. All that glitters is not gold, all that appears as gold is not precious and all that seems precious may not be the same from within.

With this shining thought, as the walk in proverbial park comes to an end, this journey was truly interesting. Till the blogger in me returns back with new thoughts and newer words, soak in this philosophical journey and enjoy its influence!

While walking inside the proverbial park...7

    Taking the stroll ahead, as the blogger in me marches towards few more halts, the next thought is different, interesting, mysterious yet applicable to each one of us. While this journey of proverbs has been exciting in every way, exploring their hidden meaning and understanding their impact in our lives has been truly wonderful. Though these proverbs have been a part of our life as valuable phrases since childhood, throwing light over them through the medium of this proverbial park has proved to be interesting, motivating and inspiring at the same time.

Halt 7:  When in Rome, do as the Romans do

     While the country ‘Rome’ and its folks ‘Romans’ are just representative terms for the proverb, idea behind this thought prompts us to blend along with the local ambiance and experience what it offers. Being one with the feel of a place and adapting to its existing conditions, surroundings and situations prepare us for the course ahead. By accepting the local culture of a region, we can invite peace, satisfaction, friendship and happiness.

    Disrespect towards a native practice or opposition towards its followers give way to misunderstandings and troubles. While one may not conform to every belief of the land or agree with every single aspect of a place, blending along with the atmosphere around opens the path for more progress and development. Interest towards the local practices, lifestyle, food, culture, beliefs and behavior offer insights of the place. Paving way for more connections, relations, bonding and memories, acceptance of local culture certainly plays an important role. By opening our arms towards the local experience, we invite new variations into our routine. Accepting the good offerings of a land and combining it with that of our own enable us to learn, develop, grow and prosper.

    A significant factor that confers its prominent effect is willingness to adapt and adopt. Adapting ourselves to situation around and adopting their true form is the key to long-lasting happiness. While we may not completely adhere to the beliefs of the local land, eagerness to experience and desire to comprehend add fodder to our knowledge base. As we toil to visualize their routine course and wonder about their usual conduct, we come closer to the magic of local air. By opening our eyes to the variations around us, we are able to sow seeds of progress, growth, development and improvement.

    Besides adopting local culture, the thought prompts us to accept prevailing situations and surrounding circumstances. Living in the present, while adapting to changing scenario depicts the power of time. Moving along with passing time and marching ahead with strength of confidence bring happiness and joy into our lives. Staying firm over our own conduct without adjusting with the place around contributes to sadness, sorrow, disappointment and failure.

With these valuable aspects, let us march towards the concluding remarks over this thought.

·         Adjusting with local ambiance and accepting the feel of a place can make us one with the surrounding.

·         Respecting the sentiments of local folks and displaying willingness towards their conduct can introduce us to wide range of experiences.

·         As we observe the lifestyle, mannerism, conduct and ambiance of a location, we come closer to its offerings.

·         Accepting, adapting, adopting and experimenting are some of the key verbs to be followed, while experiencing the ambiance of local land and rejoicing under its feel.

·         Ability to adjust and accept paves way for flexibility in life; as we demonstrate an interest towards the new surroundings, we invite development and march towards progress.

·         Willingness to be one with the ambiance showers us with wide range of benefits, besides adding to our knowledge base, it expands our horizon and shows us endless possibilities in the world.

·          By accepting local culture, prevailing situations, surrounding conditions and present circumstances, we can move along with time and invite positivity and progress.

   With seven inspirational halts, as we move towards the last one, this pull of proverbs has certainly worked wonders. Though these proverbs have entered through the mode of books and curriculum, experiencing their power once again through series of these blogs has been truly exciting in every way.

As a ‘verb’ that ‘prompts’ or a ‘proactive’ thought that ‘works’, ‘proverbs’ shall certainly remain the talk of town! 

While walking inside the proverbial park…6

   

    An extensive club with innumerable members – proverbs, thoughts, quotes and phrases can certainly never cease. Playing with words that reflect meaning, value, substance and wisdom, each of these aspects are extremely essential for an enlightened soul. As we inculcate their essence into our living, we realize the power and influence. Though proverbs may never gain an entry into our usual conversation, their memories and references can leave a long-lasting impact.

  As the blogger in me wanders in this park, once again; the next thought appears motivational and inspirational, while drawing our attention towards its influence.

Halt 6: Where there is a will, there is a way.

    A self-explanatory thought with valuable meaning, this proverb applies to each and every individual, situation, circumstance and condition. Willingness to succeed and determination to proceed are two precious keys for progress. Strong desire to march towards the finish line powers our efforts along the way. Every task demands preparation, hard work, devotion and sincerity. Ready results or quick solutions may offer temporary happiness and satisfaction, but these aspects can never replace the purity of our efforts.

     Paving way for our own life constitutes the backbone of our existence. Relying on excuses for uncertain circumstances or depending on others for our own success and happiness represents the weakness behind our thoughts. By transforming an unsuitable situation into a favorable one and working towards positive outcome for every condition, we can ensure fruits of happiness, peace, joy and pleasure. Confidence, faith, devotion, trust, patience and perseverance are some of the most essential ingredients for a successful outcome. Making favorable arrangements and adjustments that suit the prevailing situations form the backbone of victory.

    Complaints about the available conditions or unwillingness to adapt to the existing circumstances can never take us towards joy. As one of the most significant components of the body, our mind plays an important role in every domain of life. Our thoughts, wishes, hopes and beliefs are instrumental towards achievements and success. Strong will power to transform failure into success or sorrow into happiness is the central core of our existence. 

    Though challenges and difficulties may raise their ugly heads quite often, staying positive and determined is the key to success. Unless we make our own way, we can never reach the destination. An aspect that applies to every situation, willingness to reach the end point is the true fuel for victory. While success can never be guaranteed, pleasure of investing our efforts and satisfaction of working hard towards it are the primary highlights of every task.

    Confidence and courage to succeed, unknowingly forms the striking feature of our personality as we strive towards a positive outcome each time. By decorating our attitude with willingness to succeed, we can inspire and motivate those around us. Staying patient, calm, peaceful and motivated amidst difficulties and worries represent the dedication in our conduct.

   With these words of inspiration that prompt us to work hard in every kind of situation, this thought certainly deserves our attention, commitment, acceptance and agreement.

What are the various ways in which this proverb can come to life?

Let us look at some of the interesting end statements that can complete the meaning of this proverb, adding value, bringing life!  

Where there is a will, there is a way ----

--- to overcome hurdles, cross hindrances and handle difficulties.

--- to accomplish without excuses and achieve without complaints.

--- to march ahead with faith and determination.

--- to continue efforts with success and hard work with devotion.

--- to reach the end point with happiness, joy, satisfaction and peace.

--- to achieve what one desires, without resorting to unfair means.

--- to engage in self-happiness and personal growth.

--- to involve in tasks that bring joy, satisfaction, peace and pleasure.

--- to succeed, evolve, progress and grow.

   With these endings that indicate new beginnings, will and way are all we need to move ahead in life. Soak in the power of these words and inculcate their value, after all life is about learning, growing, working and living!

While walking inside the proverbial park…5

    

     After four inspirational quotes with valuable meaning, as the blogger in me walks towards the next, there is energy in thoughts and enthusiasm in words. As phrases that teach and words that preach, proverbs are truly essential by all means. While these proverbs are nurtured into us right since our childhood, their real essence radiates all through the journey called life. Unexpected encounters and uncertain situations bring us closer to the real significance behind these thoughts, while we correlate them with our own life story.

 

     With this, as we halt for our next proverb, let us admire its relevance in our daily course of living.

Halt 5: Slow and steady wins the race

     Inspired by the famous rabbit and tortoise tale, this next thought prompts us to think, consider, analyze, interpret and conclude. While pride, overconfidence, unpreparedness and instability costs us, staying patient and slow takes us towards success. Though this thought may appear as a misfit under the light of modern world, fast lifestyle, quick changes and fast-paced development, it is necessary to adopt stability and patience in our conduct. While functioning with an active mind and energetic body is certainly essential for success and happiness, blending it with topping of patience enhances the flavor of joy.

        Steadiness in our conduct points to the stage of maturity. With stable thought process, it is possible to hunt for options, solutions, answers and conclusions. Impatient and unprepared attitude point to the greed for success without evaluating all the aspects carefully. Hasty decisions with an aim to bag quick happiness or incorrect means to reach the destination can harm us in the long run. Though short-cuts may take us towards the finish line, it can never give us long-lasting peace and satisfaction.

      Though today’s fast paced ambiance demands quick decisions and quicker actions, it should be carried out with a stable attitude. Careful consideration of the prevailing situations and surrounding atmosphere can ensure flawless efforts and yield successful outcome. Crawling slowly and steadily at a snail’s pace is more beneficial than running around at an express speed. In an attempt to reach the finish line if we act in haste, we may end up with raw efforts and unripe fruits. 

     Influence of such conditions makes it essential to adopt stability and accept steadiness as a way of living. Besides offering peace, satisfaction and happiness, stable attitude points to the aspects of maturity, patience, humility and simplicity. By trusting our inner self and working towards the end product with an easy conduct, we can radiate its charm all around. Inspiring others to follow suit, our stable and patient approach can demonstrate its magic instantly. As others realize the significance of slow and steady manner, it can inspire them to appreciate, adopt, accept and exhibit.

     While some situations demand fast actions and rapid reactions, evaluating such conditions carefully and acting in the necessary manner can shower happiness and joy.

With these factors in mind, let us look at the concluding highlights of this proverb.

    Penned with a view to summarize the need, benefits, advantages and necessities of stability, these highlights can act as our take-away pointers for life!

1.       Slow and steady approach prompts us to analyze, examine, observe, evaluate and understand before reaching the final conclusion.

2.       Stability and steadiness are the keys to long-lasting peace and satisfaction.

3.       Hasty decisions or impatient judgments can harm us in the long run.

4.       Though quick actions and quicker reactions are essential for success and victory, it is also important to calculate our steps for a constructive outcome.

5.       Overconfidence over our skills or excess pride over our efforts may distract us from our goals.

6.       Steady pace motivates us to march ahead with confidence.

7.       Though modern world demands fast-paced action, careful consideration of every aspect before the final reaction ensures success, happiness and satisfaction in magnified amounts.

      With this, as we march slowly and steadily towards our goal, we can enjoy the fruits at a perfect stage. Be steady and stable as you move towards the finish line, after all not every race demands the first position, most challenges need patience, perseverance, consistency and determination. 

While walking inside the proverbial park…4

    Though this walk inside the proverbial park has been educational, motivational, inspirational and informational, the blogger in me has enjoyed every halt along the way. As words and vocabulary form the primary players of this game, every halt has added its own charm. While these proverbs enter into our lives as lessons for a lifetime, their long-lasting value certainly deserves recognition. Though we cannot relate to these proverbs for every situation in our daily routine, we may appreciate its significance over the course of passing time. As we realize the truth in these words through practical execution or real experience, we move closer to its beauty and magic.

    Let us halt at yet another proverb for a closer look, while drawing inspiration and adding value into our lives!

Halt 4: Make hay while the sun shines

     Prompting us about opportunities, possibilities, options and chances, our next proverb is born with an aim to inspire. Grabbing an opportunity at the right moment and transforming it into success through an appropriate channel can bring happiness and joy into our living. Unnecessary delays, thoughts, reasons and excuses can never work in our favor as changing circumstances can cast their spell instantly. While pondering about the opportunity or wondering about its outcome, we may lose valuable time. Though patient approach and careful analysis are extremely essential raw materials for any task, quick ideas and quicker actions are equally necessary, too.

      Preparing ourselves for every kind of adventures and challenges can help us in the long run. As opportunities may knock at our door at any moment or under any situation, we must exhibit our willingness to make the best use of such occurrences. Presence of mind at the right moment and under the right situation can ensure success, satisfaction, victory and happiness. While we may fail to grab an opportunity, our regrets and sadness will not be able to reverse the situation. With this, as we realize the significance of our circumstances, we can equip ourselves with necessities. 

       Making the best use of an opportunity can present us with success and happiness. An aspect that can relate with every situation, task, domain and individual, optimum utilization of an opportunity is extremely essential. Be it professional assignments or personal goals, desired wishes or essential tasks, our prompt actions can transform into success. Circumstances and situations play important roles in the journey of life. Though prevailing circumstances may not appear exciting or work in our favor, hunting for the good in them and converting them into valuable gold is definitely possible. While situations may change and seem out of control, investing our sincere efforts can yield success.

        Though this proverb relates to the domain of opportunities, it also talks about the significance of prevailing conditions. With changing seasons and weather conditions, as our food habits, hobbies, tasks and lifestyle differ, all these variations point to the power of ‘present’. Living in the present, while drawing lessons from the past is the key to success. Dreaming about the future can distract us from the tasks in hand.

   With these thoughts in mind, what are the various aspects that relate to this proverb perfectly?

   What occurrences in life depict the reality behind these thoughts?

What are the practical examples of this informational theory?

1.       Travel the world, explore the globe, visit different locations, and reach various destinations – while age allows and energy sustains!

2.       Enjoy food, experiment with cuisines, try out different dishes – while appetite allows.

3.       Spend quality time with family, make plans with friends, network, connect and socialize– while time permits.

4.       March towards goals, take risks, believe in self, experiment, explore, innovate – while life progresses.

5.       Fulfil ambitions, engage in hobbies, spend quality ‘me’ time – while mind desires.

6.       Exercise, perform physical activities, develop, nurture, grow – while body supports.

   With endless possibilities that can suit our circumstances and limitless opportunities that can shower their benefits, living in the present and seizing every moment is truly essential. Inappropriate conditions and unfavorable aspects can drain away all the charm.

   Seize the opportunities and transform them into success, after all shining sun creates hay and shining luck creates happiness!

While walking inside the proverbial park….3

     

      Though proverbs were an essential part of our school journey, I never realized their value till the blogger in me decided to explore this domain closely. As feedback started pouring in, while I moved along the proverbial park, I was amazed by the power of these valuable thoughts. Though we read, recited, wrote, understood and produced them in exams as part of the school curriculum, their real significance was appreciated only after practical application. As matured individuals, when life takes us through different routes every passing day, the meaning of these proverbs turn into reality. It is only after one encounters diverse situations and faces novel adventures, the words of such proverbs come to life. Moving ahead along the course of this thoughtful journey, the next destination awaits our arrival.

                                                                                                                    

Halt 3: Time and Tide waits for no man         

     While this blog may appear as a chapter from time management course, universal significance of the proverb that applies to every age group, gender, religion, caste, nationality and occupation radiates its true value. As dedicated, sincere, disciplined and honest players of life, time and tide continue their game forever. With companions of seconds, minutes and hours, time can keep us glued in its power.

     An extremely essential parameter that influences our work, activities, engagements and tasks; time acts a leader, taking us towards success. Disrespect towards this master does not distract or bother it; as a fixed agenda governs its functioning, it does not believe in halting for those around. Forcing us to match its steps and keep up with the pace; time instills discipline, sincerity and regularity in our conduct. Continuous nature of its activity pushes us towards a fixed approach. As hands of a clock function in a coordinated manner, time prompts us to follow suit.

    A central theme that casts its spell over every area in life, time dictates its rules to each one of us. Be it household chore or professional assignment, leisurely trip or recreational activity, time has an upper hand always. As our plans and goals revolve around the deadlines governed by time, it certainly waits for no concession. Caught within the hold of busy schedule, hectic routine, tedious commitments and strenuous work, we often complain with the hope of grabbing more hours in the day. While this demand, wish, dream or thought can never materialize in our non-fictional world, following the strict schedule of time is the only option available for each one of us.

      Though each of our activities are planned around the theme of time, holidays and vacations offer the option of ignoring the clock. As passing hours do not demand any work or assignment, such breaks provide some degree of flexibility! Teaching the value of time since childhood grants the key of sustained happiness for the entire course of life. As a strict follower of time, schools inculcate the value of sticking to it, right from day one. With this, as time takes the control of every aspect in life, we are left with no other option. Strengthening our bond with time by being punctual and regular are the best means to stay close to it. By being friends with time, we can march towards success, happiness and satisfaction.

    One of the most essential factors for achieving our goals in life, punctuality certainly plays a major role. With an undisputed superiority in every sphere, time invites satisfaction and peace. Though our hard work, sincerity, dedication, devotion and consistent efforts take us towards the end point, success cannot be colored without the shades of punctuality. Our respect and care towards time convert into ingredients for long-lasting peace and happiness.

With this in mind, what is the take-away message for all of us?

·         Time is an essential factor that influences every single aspect in life.

·         Disciplined approach towards this strict member of time can take us towards success.

·         No matter how many prayers we offer, time will never choose to halt for our convenience.

·         Incorporating punctuality as a regular feature in our life is the key to happiness and joy.

·         By respecting the aspect of time for ourselves and those around us, we invite positive and healthy changes in our life.

·         Efficient planning and perfect coordination are extremely essential to make best use of our time.

·         Though we may accumulate lot of wealth and gather numerous assets, time and tide shall continue to march ahead; valuing it along every situation or circumstance is the only key to happiness.

     Thus value, treasure, protect and utilize time well, as flowing waves that rise and fall, time flows through our life –in its own rhythm, at its own pace! 

While walking inside the proverbial park...2

     Halt 2: Look before you leap

      A cautionary proverb with an embedded warning, our next halt in the proverbial park aims to motivate us towards every aspect in life. Framed with a view to sharpen our thinking minds and analyze the prevailing situations, ‘Look before you leap’ warns us about dangers of haste, impatience, misunderstandings and incorrect calculations. Though life grants us several opportunities to improve, develop, rectify and progress; understanding the consequences and preparing for the unexpected are equally essential factors towards success. While errors of the past can be transformed into guidelines for the future, staying cautious during every major move can prevent us from permanent damages.

     Standing strong over the foundation of carefulness, patience, understanding and maturity, the proverb prepares us towards every big task in life. Thoughtful analysis and careful evaluation before the execution of big decisions can ensure favorable output as per our desires. Though failures, mistakes, uncertainties and unavoidable aspects can cast their unwanted spell at any point during the process, our careful look can avoid certain troubles. Excited leap or jump without any considerations can cost us numerous difficulties at later stage, adding to the sorrow of failure, irritation, frustration, despair and defeat.

   Though we may exhibit great levels of care while dealing with major events in life, it is essential to incorporate this habit during our routine daily course, too. Before radiating our excitement over a new development, achievement, fact or belief, we must consider its impact in the long run. While it may not provide all the answers in a perfect and precise manner, it can serve as our guiding light along the way. By staying aware, alert, awake and careful, we can create a pattern for every task in life. Watchful eyes and active mind can prompt us towards analysis. A long jump on the other end of land demands calculation, judgement, trust and faith.

     An aspect that suits every situation in life, look before you leap is certainly the need of the hour. With changing scenario of the globe, as newer challenges greet us on the way, our inputs of care, control, analysis and patience can offer several benefits. From home to work, childhood to old-age, responsibilities to rights, demands to provisions, necessities to luxuries and seriousness to enjoyment, every domain of experience can flourish under the ambiance of careful actions.

    With this theme and thought, inculcating the habit of ‘Look before you leap’ can definitely help us in many ways.

    Join me, as I make an attempt towards framing a step-wise road map that can fit almost every situation in life. Drawing inspiration from this powerful proverb, let us create our customized version for future use!

Step 1: Gather maximum information about any new aspect. Be it work assignment or holiday plan, collecting every possible bit of information can help in the long run.

Step 2: Understand the impact, influence, after effects and results. Evaluate the situation from every angle, before concluding a final decision.

Step 3: Learn from experiences, references and guidance; interacting with seniors or experienced members of the club can benefit us with their valuable pieces of information.

Step 4: Create a rough plan and improvise it along the course of task. By adding variations, beneficial changes and desired differences, one can achieve successful results.

Step 5: Evaluate, analyze, observe, and introspect; spending adequate time towards the new development can ensure desired happiness and enjoyment.

Step 6: Look around for hints, suggestions, ideas and advice that can fit within the required frame. Though every advice may not match our situation or resemble our circumstance, it can act as a guideline to certain extent.

Step 7: Embrace positive attitude and happiness, though we may prepare and plan to the last bit, failures can enter into our lives, uninvited. By holding a positive attitude and healthy mindset, we can overcome troubles, errors, difficulties and face challenges with hope.

    Though these steps can act as guidelines under the spirit of ‘Look before you leap’, adhering to each and every aspect may not be possible. Changing situations can train us for variations. By making the best use of this thought; while hoping for success, happiness and satisfaction, one can certainly convert this proverb into a reality.

    Look before you leap, as things may be deceptive!

While walking inside the proverbial park….1

      Proverbs, thoughts, quotes, phrases– as necessary elements that teach, yet make use of fewer words, each of these have been attached with our lives since good, old times. Though language may differ, accent may vary and dialect may show different shades, these proverbs and thoughts convey the same message to each one alike. Focusing on an essential thought and prompting us towards its significance till the end of time, these proverbs certainly play an essential role. As ever-green factors that can never fade away, understanding the meaning behind these thoughts can color our lives with beautiful shades. While appreciating their significance and incorporating them in our course of life, we realize their true role.

      While the phase of childhood showers us with these proverbs through parents, schools, teachers and curriculum, contemplation of their real meaning is only possible along the real course of living. What enters into our minds as compulsory words soon take the form of valuable lessons, as we realize their impact in our daily lives. Diverse experiences, varied adventures and wide array of encounters train us for the challenge called life. As we walk along the path and attempt to fit into the frame, these proverbs seem to add their own share. Transferring from books to realities, they radiate their charm all around.

      While pondering about the endless list of these proverbs and thoughts, the blogger in me was tempted to revisit the proverbial world. Filled with proverbs that inspired our lives, motivated us in one way or the other, stayed with us to convey their meaning and ensured valuable touch to our living, this walk will take us towards the days of the past. As we move from one interesting proverb to the other, I hope to activate some past memories and ignite the further course.

   So, whether you have heard these thoughts on numerous occasions or whether you are experiencing their magic in close proximity for the first time, gear up for an exciting journey ahead!

Halt 1: Necessity is the mother of invention

     A proverb that can relate with each one of us at some point in our journey of life, necessity certainly gives way to new ideas and newer plans. A strong foundation of inventions, discoveries, innovations and novelties, necessity has given birth to every possible novel aspect that we enjoy today. Though the word ‘invention’ may sound as a break-through innovation or a life changing creation, it can be equated to any simple experience of daily life.

    Change in circumstances, situations, experiences or encounters can force us to adjust our daily course of routine life, giving rise to newer adventures. While fitting in the frame of life with new specifications and measurements, we are prompted to innovate and invent.

    A thought that enlightens us about the value of adjustments, necessity is the fuel that adds power to our ideas. By forcing us to think about new actions, thoughts and aspects, our needs form the primary support of every novel task. An extremely essential factor that motivates us to enjoy living, necessity ensures consistent change and continuous improvement. Taking us away from the boredom of stagnancy, necessity keeps us on our toes. By opening doors to novelties, needs drive the desire to form, create and construct. Though we all can invest our efforts and resources towards creations and innovations, basic human instinct relies on the basis of ‘necessity’. Unless we need something, we do not engage in experiments or attempts towards creating it.

    A recent close encounter with this thought gave way to the idea of the post. By learning and utilizing new factors that were ignored quite often, I realized that need is the most powerful fuel to start, sustain and stabilize. Impacting and influencing our life in one way or the other, necessity ensures progress, development, improvement and success. 

    By entering our journey during simple acts and simpler encounters, we come across its daily relevance along the path of life. We will be surprised to realize that every aspect around us takes birth from the womb of need. From household value to commercial importance, from technological utilities to luxurious trends, every domain celebrates the essence of necessity. A universal element for each one alike, necessity is truly the mother of invention.

What are your experiences with this thought? Do you believe in the reality of this proverb or consider it as yet another literary work?

Hope you enjoyed this halt at the proverbial park, while we continue our stroll ahead!  

Patience versus Impatience – whose side are you on?

       

     With majority of my loved ones belonging to the team called ‘Patience’, and very few with me on the side of ‘Impatience’, exploring this topic and wondering about the thought appeared extremely exciting. A father who appears as the undisputed captain of this team for several years now and an elder sister who is following him closely, my immense love for impatience and absolute affection towards haste prevented me from joining their peaceful influence. 

     While entire childhood was spent in convincing them about the benefits of impatience and devising ways to avoid their part of the story, marital union with much larger fan of the ‘Patience’ team has brought life to a full circle! As I exhibit my impatience yet again, and deal with peaceful people all around, this thought deserved adequate attention.

     Though I believe in the strength of peace, calmness, silence and maturity, immense patience towards every aspect in life is certainly impossible. While staying patient showers its own set of fruitful aspects, eagerness to accomplish a task or haste to complete a job can drive one towards the path of impatience. As major decisions in this journey called ‘life’ demand patience, understanding, willingness and preparation, our attitude of impatience can influence the outcome. Though hard work, efforts, dedication and practice are necessary inputs from our end; patience and trust for its completion are extremely essential too. As circumstances or situations may change their color at any moment, patience is the only shade that never chooses to leave.

      Patience imparts maturity to our character, offering enough time to think, contemplate, analyze and decide. While patience resembles a slow track that experiences every bit of the journey, impatience is the express route with tendency to over-speed. Impatience can never yield any desirable outcome as it clashes with the need for analysis. Be it a domestic activity or a workplace role, be it a leisurely adventure or a significant task, every domain of our life can be influenced by this attitude of impatience. By offering more time, aspect of patience ensures careful judgement. Belief in inner self and trust in one’s efforts fuel the successful journey of a patient individual. By investing more resources towards completion of a project, players of the patient team ensure success, satisfaction, happiness and content.

   Though impatience may sound as the villain of this story, my affection towards it certainly demands some justification. While I will never encourage anyone to incorporate this element in their own conduct, I was prompted to look at its brighter side. Impatience demands planning, fast execution, quick responses and quicker actions. Not relying on silence and stability, impatient conduct forces one to be on the toes. While this attitude has forced me to always stay prepared for several hours in advance, haste towards accomplishment and impatience towards completion have certainly acted as my best friends throughout!

    Striking a perfect balance between both these teams may prove beneficial. While some big decisions in life demand all possible investment of patience, certain time-sensitive acts may prompt the involvement of impatience.

    So, while you are still pondering about which side you have chosen finally, let me introduce you to the highlights of each team (this can make your decision process simpler)

Team A: PATIENCE

Highlights:

·         Involve themselves in thinking, contemplating, analyzing before framing a final decision

·         Silent, cheerful, happy and peaceful conduct

·         Belief and trust in self, confidence to achieve success

·         Realize the value of time and wait for it to spread its charm

·         Prevent panic, chaos, last moment confusion and invest in silent thinking

·         Look forward to the final outcome, yet enjoy every moment of the long journey

·         Make priorities according to the significance of every task

Team B: IMPATIENCE

Highlights:

·         Believe in quick actions and fast responses

·         Hope for immediate answers towards every query

·         Respect time and prepare well in advance

·         Stay away from deep thinking and invest in practical execution

·         Always equipped for action, while planning and packing in haste

·         Consider analysis as waste of time, trust in the power of trials and retrials.

        While it is impossible to wear patience or impatience as the only outfit for every occasion, it is essential to adopt a flexible approach and an understanding attitude. Adopting essence of patience can benefit in the long run as every task in the future may appear as peaceful and satisfying.

  So whether you choose to advocate patience or promote impatience; enjoy their influence, after all life is about trials, errors, experiments and retrials, over and over again!

Loving yourself

      

      Right from the moment we take birth in our mother’s womb, a strong bond of connection begins. What starts off as the first experience of love, enters into various molds as we move along the journey called life. From parents’ love to siblings’ attachment, from equation with relatives to network of friends, the magnitude of love increases by multiple folds along the path. While new relations develop with passing time, newer titles get added into our plot, showering more doses of unconditional love. A never ending supply that continuous right till the end, several new relations of spouse, children and grandchildren bring their own unique stock of love.

    While we are taught to respect, nurture, retain and enrich love in the form of these relations, essential chapters about loving ourselves are often deleted from the curriculum. As the blogger in me hunts for inspiration, creativity, motivation and purpose, I realized the relevance of this aspect in every area of life. 

     In the crucial, challenging, adventurous and difficult course of our story, we tend to ignore the essential task of loving our own selves. While fulfilling responsibilities, performing duties, maintaining relationships and valuing our loved ones, we exhaust all our time, energy, resources and interest. With this, as we enter into the continuous cycle of life, we are not able to include the phase of loving ourselves.

    Though loving ourselves seems to be the easiest action on earth, it is the most commonly ignored, forgotten, misinterpreted and assumed activity by each one of us. While we invest numerous efforts and lace them with dedication, devotion, trust and care for our loved ones, we fail to replicate it for our side of the story. Loving ourselves is not a complicated project that demands preparation, skills, plans and analysis, all it needs is strong will towards execution.

     Misinterpreted as a selfish involvement, loving ourselves is often correlated with incorrect behavior. Spending quality time with self, engaging in enjoyable activities, nurturing hidden talent and introspecting our route towards destination are beneficial factors that deserve our attention. Though taking care of inner mind and strengthening it with desired elements demand contribution from our end, balancing it with our worldly affairs is the key to success. Excess weight-age to one relation alone or excessive involvement into ourselves always can perform more harm than good.

    So, whether I have convinced you to love yourself in a novel way or whether I have voiced your belief through the blogger’s way, let us look at some of the means to love ourselves. After all, ideas give rise to possibilities and suggestions give way to improvements.

1.       Engage in ‘me’ time

Dedicated session for our hobbies, creative tasks, leisure, relaxation, physical fitness or enjoyment, spending ‘me’ time every day is extremely essential. While it may last for couple of few minutes or few hours, designing activities for ourselves offer lot of advantages.

Do not compromise that 10 minutes meditation or prayer session for some commitment outside, after all ‘me’ time is the ‘most essential’ time.

2.       Introspect and inspect

Thoughts and ideas play an important role in our development. Thinking about our future while drawing lessons from past can work wonders, this makes it essential to engage in introspection as a means to understand ourselves.

Talk to your mind as your best friend for life.

3.       Work for your own happiness

Happiness is a choice to be made by ourselves. Involving into tasks of interest and passion can color the canvas of our future. Drawing happiness from our own efforts offer the pure taste of joy, depending on others for content and love can lead to disappointment.

Indulge into your favorite food or enjoy your most loved movie.

4.       Break conventions, think out of the box!

While loving ourselves, engaging in novel fun-filled activities that are not followed by others or not recommended by the so-called society is absolutely perfect. Practicing our passion for dance, music, arts or any form can nurture love for ourselves.

March towards progress from a bathroom singer to a stage performer or dance like no one is watching, after all thinking out of the box is the first step towards loving yourself.

5.       Appreciate and pamper yourself

Though self-pompous nature is absolutely incorrect by all means, appreciating ourselves for hard work and success can motivate us towards further course of action. Occasional pampering with our favorite activities can energize us for the journey ahead.

 Pat your back or clap for yourself, as you are your best possible critic ever.

        Hope these few suggestions can ignite your thoughts about loving yourself.  Love yourself and spread the love, after all you are the dearest member of your own club!