Tuesday, January 12, 2016

In happiness and sorrow, in excitement and boredom - the last station called ‘TEARS’

       


     Moving along the journey of feelings and emotions, as we reach at the last leg of this express, a perfect blend of diverse experiences will greet us at the arrival. A form that fits into every occasion, an expression that suits every situation, an act that displays every message, a source that conveys every emotion – the last station of our journey shall bring us closer to the wonder called ‘tears.’

      Though associated with sorrow and defeat, tears have a lot more in store than we generally think about. While pondering about the significance of this destination and justifying its inclusion in the express, I realized that tears perform an array of versatile roles. From sadness of a loss to joy of achievement, from excitement of unexpected happiness to lonely moments filled with boredom, from disappointment of defeat to enthusiasm of meeting loved ones; tears seem to perform perfect jobs in every domain. An experience that takes us closer to the thoughts of our mind, tears are able to convey those feelings, whenever and whenever words fall short.

     Depicting the true picture of our emotions, tears prompt us towards thinking and understanding. While tears of sorrow are undesirable and tears of defeat involve us into unnecessary engagements, wiping them forever can take us one step closer to peace. Though reason of its occurrence or moment of its arrival is not under our control, erasing wetness of tears soaked in essence of failures can radiate enthusiasm and freshness. By motivating about a new start or pushing us towards the next launch, elimination of tears turn out to be the first stepping stone.

      While tears born out of sorrow need quick removal, presence of loved ones accelerates this process. Benefiting from the strength of their support and trust, one can replace such tears with smiles. Tears due to re-connection with our own people far and wide or tears of separation during departure express several emotions in a single act. By taking us towards true feelings, these tears are able to portray our love, affection, care and concern.

     With diverse shades to the nature and behavior of humans, tears mean different things for different people. While some believe in its strength as a form of expression, some resort to it as an unproved solution for every trouble. Though tears may not offer any benefits, they comes across as means of clearance. 
     
     By enabling free-flowing movement of inner emotions, it prevents accumulation of stress and disappointment. Though stereotypical attitude dominates the theme of our society, it is necessary to respect emotions of every individual. As a means to display thoughts and feelings, each one can resort to the warmth of tears.

       Unexpected happy surprises and most desired moments of victory commence the happy stream of tears! Radiating joy of achievement, these tears represent the true colors of success. When tears of pride make home within a parent’s heart, the joy of success increases by several folds.

      Let us look at the diverse meanings of these tears under different situations.

1.       Happiness – During moments of joy, these tears stand for excitement, energy, enthusiasm,  satisfaction.
2.       Sorrow – expression of pain, disappointment, hurt, guilt.
3.       Surprise- representation of unexpected events, undesired or desired moments of shock.
4.       Affection – feelings of love, care, trust and support for loved ones
5.       Separation- moments of loneliness, boredom, sadness of being far away.
6.       Retrospection – revisit to past memories, remembrance of happy and sad moments.
7.       Achievement – end product of hard work, trophy of perseverance, dedication, devotion, determination.

     Such is the magic of tears. Making place for themselves under every situation, tears find a way to influence our thoughts. As an unavoidable occurrence, yet essential emotion, when tears enter and exit our lives, we realize the true meaning of being alive.

     With this as we end the journey on train of feelings, I hope you all had a wonderful experience. As tears form an essential component of farewell, there could not be any more apt topic to conclude this course. Drafted with an aim to provide a platform to my thoughts, these posts have taken me closer towards the joy of writing.


     While I continue to blog about variety of experiences and randomness of life, wish you all ‘HAPPY READING’!  

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